Zhao Zhi called Adam's black name and attracted netizens' dissatisfaction. Do you think jokes between friends should be moderate?

When Zhao recorded the program, she called Adam by his black name, which made many netizens very dissatisfied with Zhao and thought that her joke had gone too far. In fact, she may have thought it was a joke between friends, but she probably didn't consider whether this sentence would hurt Adam. In real life, it is estimated that many people have met friends and played some jokes that hurt them unintentionally.

First, jokes between friends should also have a bottom line. Moderate jokes help to bring two people closer and adjust the atmosphere. However, jokes must be measured, you must know each other's bottom line, and pay attention to each other's feelings when you speak. For example, don't joke about friends' physical defects and things that friends care about, because in this way, it will bring certain psychological harm to friends. No matter how humorous you are, it is not good to touch a friend's sore spot.

Second, never make fun of a friend's pain. Everyone has their own concerns and things they don't want to mention. As a good friend, you must know your friend and know what he cares about. Then, don't joke about what your friends care about. The joke you think may be a sharp knife, which will deepen the wound that is about to heal in his heart. Therefore, when you get along with your friends, you should be careful and know more about your friends.

Third, learn to use it reasonably? A joke? Joking is to make others happy and enliven the atmosphere. It's just a language expression. We should learn to use it rationally and not make fun of others casually. Once the joke goes too far, it may cause a difficult situation to end. Therefore, in life, before joking, we must carefully think about whether this joke is appropriate and whether it can really play a role in regulating the atmosphere.