Caesarean section made me understand many things.

How time flies. In the blink of an eye, my second treasure will be born. Because the doctor said it was possible to have a caesarean section before, I prepared it in 32 weeks, so I have been doing well.

Don't be afraid of incorrect fetal position, because I checked that it is the head position of 36 weeks, and the baby is still turning in the stomach, so the fetal position is different, so I am so sure. After 37 weeks, B-ultrasound showed breech position again. Actually, I can accept it, because I also want to have a caesarean section. After all, I feel safer when I am older, mainly because I have never experienced it. At that time, the first child was born naturally. Am I funny? You have to go through it when you give birth. So when the fetal position is not correct, I turn joy into joy. At 9 weeks and 38 weeks, the doctor said that he would give me a final examination. If it is not correct, I will arrange a laparotomy for 39 weeks, because it is not too early at the earliest. As a result, once the fetal position is correct, I am still in the basin, and my mood is very low, because it means waiting until nature begins. Later, because I had congenital heart disease and patent ductus arteriosus, I chose 39 weeks of caesarean section for safety.

It really didn't hurt when the caesarean section was born. My lower body was numb and I didn't feel any pain, but I could feel the knife blooming and I could take everything out of the child according to my stomach, because I was awake and could still talk. After half an hour or so, the child came out and packed up. I held him to see the men and women, and then I sent him out first. I put my stomach inside, but I can bear it, but I still feel uncomfortable. Still that sour feeling, not pain. After sewing for a while, I was sent to the ward, and then it hurt even more. Otherwise, you won't eat or drink or fart or eat liquid food for six hours. At that time, I was starving. Fortunately, experienced sisters told me to drink more old skin water and fart quickly.

My husband was the only one who took care of me when I was lying in bed with a catheter. At this time, if my husband can take care of others, then you will be happy. If not, then you will be very sad and don't know how to take care of that lost mood. Tears came down reluctantly. I told him I was hungry, but he ignored me, didn't give me water to drink, didn't comfort me, and thought I didn't exist. The nurse keeps coming at night. He slept like a pig, and all the sisters who had experienced it knew what it was like. At that time, I made up my mind to take good exercise in the future. I didn't go to bed like this because no one was heartbroken. I had to take care of everything myself. Later, my husband didn't insist on leaving the hospital until I was discharged, and he left in two or three days. People don't have a good rest here, and they have a headache when they stay up late. As for me, I stayed up all night with a painful wound and couldn't get out of bed. He became a well-known joke in the hospital and then he left.

Finally, I want to say that after this experience, I understand that my husband must find someone who will take care of you and care about you. Otherwise, when you go to bed, he looks like nothing but an ornament. All the hardships can only be borne by him, and the mother-in-law just takes care of the children. I don't believe in treating you like a daughter. Women should love themselves more, because no one will love you that much. It's not that we become cruel, but that you make us cruel. I think I will change after this experience. I wrote it down to remind myself.