Children are often angry because of other people's words. What should I do if I cry?

Empathy: I can feel that you want your children to be stronger. Is that so?

Second, concretization: Can you give an example to illustrate the specific performance of children's anxiety, irritability and crying?

Third, discuss the causes of the problem, and make a concrete analysis:

A. It is effective to solve problems with such emotional expressions: no matter what form children use to express their emotions, as long as they feel that the expression is effective, they will use it repeatedly.

Solution: Parents pay less attention to these behaviors, and children naturally don't respond with such behaviors. But not paying attention does not mean that it is completely "indifferent." Parents should also maintain relative concern for their children, and then discuss with them what to do and how to do it after their "emotional troubles" are over.

B children's willpower is insufficient: in the process of growing up, they may not have suffered too many setbacks. In the face of setbacks, they will cry to solve them, so that others will lower their standards for their children.

Solution: Carry out the corresponding willpower exercise, let the children be responsible for their own affairs, and let them know that crying can't solve the problem, but parents should give appropriate encouragement and support to help them build their self-confidence.

C There are other deep-seated reasons: children's emotional instability may be caused by family anxiety, anger, aggression and other emotions.

Solution: Learn more about the family situation. If possible, you can talk to your child alone to assess whether his mood is stable. If he feels different from ordinary children, you can guide him to seek professional help.