I think some things are totally providence, everything is artificial and false.

The so-called providence is something that people who are born, sick and dead can't change, such as their birth, their body, their face and so on. Everything belongs to nature, including the birth environment.

Faced with this situation, what we can do is artificial. The so-called man-made, is that we can let ourselves in the process from birth to death. Happiness, depression, pessimism and pain are all controlled by people themselves, not given to you by others.

The environment you face is more objective, and poverty is a fact. Facing the happiness of one's own family and others, there will inevitably be self-reflection and cognitive criticism in the comparison. Brother, I sympathize with you and understand you.

We can't choose our own family, because it's destiny takes a hand, but we can choose how live high looks like ourselves. Facing the family environment, we complain a lot. In fact, your parents are more bitter and uncomfortable than you. For any parent in this world, they all want their children to have a good starting platform and a good living environment, so they are more worried and more miserable than you.

What you have to do is to form your own family with your self-confidence, your ability and your dreams. You are not sad to see this family. Instead of letting many people look down on you or even make jokes, it is better to work hard and struggle by yourself. It is easy to make money when others have money. It's so hard to see him making this money. I believe you can do it, and you are better. A great youth is waiting for you to create.