How to talk about puppy love with children?

To the helplessness of many parents, children who are growing up every day are very vague about sexual knowledge, but they soon become impulsive. Everyone likes the opposite sex, which is normal. However, many parents don't want their children to fall in love while they are still at school.

So there was a disagreement with the child. In addition to affecting learning, what worries parents most is that puppy love is likely to bring children a tragedy of "short pleasure and eternal regret". This situation is indeed quite a lot in reality. So how should parents communicate with their children when they find their puppy love?

1, share your love experience with your children, for example, father and son talk, mother and daughter talk. It can be said: Dad likes a girl at the age of fourteen, knowing that it is sweet and painful ... "Then he talked about his own experience, several girls he once liked, and the happy feeling of living with his mother now.

Let children know that their affection for the opposite sex will fade with age in their teens. Those are actually not true love, but the psychological germination caused by the gradual maturity of puberty physiology, and I just like it a little.

2, guide him to communicate, there may be unexpected gains. Children can't control their own hearts. You can ask him to tell you about their communication, put forward some requirements for the time and place of communication, and put forward some requirements for the topic of communication and contact information.

As long as you have a good parent-child relationship, he agreed. By doing so, at least, you know how things work. Besides, as you know, the traffic jam can't stop at this time. If not, what can we do?

3. Guide children to establish a correct view of marriage and love. When children enter adolescence, the impulse to the opposite sex is inevitable. At this time, teachers and parents need to guide their children to establish a correct view of marriage and love. When children can correctly treat the responsibility and respect contained in love and marriage, and even further turn this youthful passion into a driving force for serious study and positive progress, we don't have to worry about children going astray and being unable to extricate themselves.

4. Strengthen sex education for teenagers and get rid of the mystery of sex. A very important reason why many primary and middle school students embark on the road of puppy love is that they have little contact with basic sexual knowledge since childhood. Out of physiological instinct and curiosity about sex, they will sincerely like and admire their classmates or friends of the opposite sex.

Children's sexual development is an interlocking process. As long as the previous stage develops smoothly, the possibility of problems in the later stage is relatively small. We need to educate children properly from early childhood to satisfy their curiosity about sex at every stage. When children gradually uncover the mystery of sex, they can correctly face the mutual attraction of the opposite sex and not fall in love early.