My in-laws are too eccentric. Not only did they take no children, but they also gave all their money to my sister. What should we do if something goes wrong?

My husband and I have known each other for 7 years, been married for 5 years and have a lovely 3-year-old daughter. When my husband and I got married, we got married. We had no house, no car and no savings. Because of love, I married him thousands of miles away, with no relatives or friends around me. My life is bitter but also happy. My husband has lived with his grandparents since he was 1 year old, and his in-laws have been indifferent since childhood. Even the 30 thousand bride price for marriage is forced by my husband and grandfather. Although we lived with our husband and grandfather in his 70-odd-flat old house after marriage, life was very warm.

Later, old Gong Kai and I opened a deli, and we thought about borrowing 5,000 yuan from our in-laws to buy goods, but we didn't have a dime. With the baby, my in-laws have never taken care of this grandson. The child is now three and a half years old and doesn't even know his grandparents. Don't say that he loves his grandson as much as other grandparents. He hasn't even bought a fruit or a candy for his children. When the child was one year old, we packed our bags and went to the parents-in-law's house, thinking of letting them see the child. As a result, they cooked two dishes. Later, I learned to ignore them. We talk about ours, and they talk about theirs.

But I'm still naive. Last year, my mother-in-law suffered a comminuted fracture in a car accident. The reason is that my mother-in-law is retrograde and fully responsible, and the insurance company doesn't care at all. As a result, the operation cost was not enough. My father-in-law took his bank card and said to her husband, what should I do with 2000 yuan in Cary? The elder sister-in-law obviously has money, but she doesn't come on the pretext of busy business. My husband was forced to call on the spot and borrowed more than 20 thousand from relatives and friends for surgery. At that moment, I felt that my husband and I were their chamber pot in the eyes of my in-laws.

In fact, my in-laws have a retirement salary of more than 5,000 yuan a month, but for so many years, both the savings from my previous job and the pension money after retirement have been posted to my sister! Yes, my husband has a sister whose child is in the first grade. When I got married, I bought her a house as a wedding room. Of course, I didn't know my husband at that time, so I didn't say anything!

The year before last, my sister-in-law made an investment and sold the house. As a result, she lost all her money. After she came back, her in-laws posted money to pay the down payment and decoration of the second house! He also donated money to his brother-in-law to open several restaurants. My brother-in-law is also a talent. None of them will live more than a year. I don't know how much it costs to post my sister in recent years!

It's okay now. My mother-in-law lost a leg. She thought of us when she asked for money, and when she needed someone to take care of her. She asked me to wait on her and said that we should be filial or something. Grandma, are you ashamed? . It really pisses me off. Good humiliate! When she was discharged from the hospital, neither my husband nor I went to see her. I'm not going! I must be filial to such in-laws? Otherwise it's wrong? Joke!

My family, my husband and I just opened a small shop to earn money to support four people, including grandpa. The pressure is really great, and I owe tens of thousands of foreign debts. My husband's grandfather is 85 years old and has no membrane on his knee. He has 350 injections of a medicine, two injections once every two months at first, and now four injections twice a month, all of which are paid by us. My in-laws left her husband's grandfather alone decades ago. I just want to ask what should I do if I meet such a good in-laws and grandparents? Must I serve them? I don't want to anyway!