Is the child born with yin and yang eyes?

A friend said: when he was a child, he often saw two children standing on the living room wall, so he told his parents about it, scaring the family to death, and asked the mage and fortune teller to work hard. But when his parents asked him again, he still said that he could see two children. They soon sold their house and moved to another city. It was not until a long time later that his father knew that the two children were "Haier brothers"-so the feather duster at home was replaced with a new one. ...

Haha, when the cold wave swept across the country, Teacher Chen wanted to tell you a cold joke first. Is it negative or positive? [Cover your face] [Cover your face]

However, when I was a child, I also heard my grandparents solemnly say that children are born with yin and yang eyes and can see unclean things!

In other words, this superstition of the older generation actually coincides with the achievements of modern psychological research to a certain extent.

According to Piaget's research, children generally have a unique psychological phenomenon. They regard everything (whether human or non-human) as alive and conscious (anthropomorphic) and communicate with it. This is animism.

This is a natural phenomenon of children's development and a necessary stage of development. When parents find this sign in their children, they should make more conscious use of it. For example:

1. Help children establish good behavior habits.

Get your hands dirty playing with sand; Jumping and sweating-but when it's time to wash your hands and take a shower, many children refuse to cooperate. Parents often want to cajole or even forcibly suppress, while children cry and make a scene. ...

Solution: For example, when washing hands, parents can praise their children with the role of "hand" and say, "Thank you, you cleaned me up so that I can eat fruit."

Children are usually interested in this anthropomorphic dialogue and then give up their resistance to hand washing. Then, when cleaning other body parts, parents can also follow the above ideas.

Correct bad habits

Children generally don't like to take the initiative to drink water, especially when they have a cold and fever. The more parents tell them to drink more water, the less they cooperate. What should I do?

Solution: For example, parents can play the role of the child's stomach and say to the child, "Baby, my stomach is dying of thirst. Please open your mouth and drink water quickly. " You can also put your ear to his stomach and say, "Oh, there is too little water. If it flows down his throat, it will be gone." Drink more water. Listen, if you don't drink water, your stomach will cry. "Of course, there is no need to limit the role of the stomach, and you can also talk to your child in other parts.

3. Raise awareness.

For example, when parents educate their children about "morning" and "evening", it is easier for them to understand what "morning" (sunrise) and "evening" (sunset) are when they use words such as "Grandpa Sun is up" and "Grandpa Sun is down". Compared with copying the dry definitions and theorems in textbooks, the effect is much better.

In daily life, parents tell stories to their children, or choose picture books and animations. It is best not to have horrible plots or images. It is difficult for children in this period to distinguish reality from fiction and lack analytical ability. If they think that ghosts really exist in their lives, they will have undue fears and sometimes even hallucinations. This is why children have yin and yang eyes and see unclean things-this is superstition, don't believe it! [Picking nose]

We should choose those picture books or cartoons with good quality, such as pictures and words close to children's psychology and physiology, aesthetic and pursuing truth, goodness and beauty, which is conducive to children's quality training and mental health development.

"Everything is animistic" is a manifestation of insufficient development of consciousness in stages. While using this feature for education, parents should also guide their children to learn to distinguish between people and things and understand all kinds of things in nature in essence, so as to continuously improve their cognitive ability-this is the right way! [like]