I've been bored. How can I make myself humorous?

In life, we often feel bored, and sometimes we really think that chatting will kill us. We will unconsciously envy those comedians or people who are full of wisdom and humor on stage, in front of the screen and in books. In fact, people's humorous ability is not innate, and it needs constant practice, exercise and accumulation the day after tomorrow to vomit blood, speak appropriately and laugh heartily in social occasions. The great humorous jokes of many celebrities are widely circulated and praised by everyone because of their efforts and improvement. If you want humor, you can start from the following four aspects:

1, put down the pressure and burden, remember, you are you, a happy and funny you. Sometimes, the reason why we feel bored is actually because we are too demanding of ourselves. Imagine: Who in the crowd doesn't want to be conspicuous? But the more I think about it, the more I can't let go of this topic. We care so much about what others say about us that we will lose our accurate position. In fact, do you feel that when we are most relaxed, we are also the most enjoyable and interesting? So, always remind yourself: relax, I have no pressure, I am myself.

2. Read books about improving humor and eloquence. In order to achieve the ideal state of humor, we need to speak with content and interest. The ideas and viewpoints we speak are novel, positive and positive, and the topics we pay attention to are also attractive, which requires us to have a wide range of knowledge and reading. Poetry, novels, philosophy, life sciences, etc. We should all dabble in one by one, so that when we meet different topics, we can all talk effectively instead of doing nothing and doing flowers on the wall. Specialized miscellaneous books such as Speech and Eloquence and the Art of Speech are also very good reading choices.

3, talk more, don't be afraid of making a fool of yourself, and practice more and you will be close to success. Do you find that the hardest thing is to say the first sentence? Once we speak, everything goes smoothly, but we have a psychological obstacle, that is, we are not good at speaking in front of people. Then we can start from a small circle. For example, our family dinner on weekends, comparing our daily work meetings, such as the monthly summary of our department, all these occasions are the key to exercise our eloquence. Be brave, concentrate, and confident smiling faces affect every audience. Slowly, you will find that being humorous is not as difficult as you think.

4. Collect more interesting jokes and humorous stories, and you will find that they are common tips for the court at critical times. Now there are many humorous stories and life stories gathered by such professional writers in mobile phones. Don't underestimate these small pieces of tofu. You should remember a few carefully. When the scene is very cold, you will try, and you will find that the atmosphere will suddenly relax and everyone will laugh. After you are happy, you will find that life is actually beautiful.

The above is the advice given by Yaya, the original author of Aojing and an emotional expert. I hope it will help everyone ~