How to teach children how to solve conflicts peacefully?

When children play together, conflicts often occur, and these "little things" happen between children. In the eyes of many parents, their children can't suffer. If the children suffer a little, they can't stand it.

It is normal for children to have conflicts, which is also the only way for them to grow up. They can learn how to communicate with people correctly through conflicts. As parents, we should correctly understand the conflicts and contradictions between children.

First, treat children's emotions caused by conflicts correctly

Children will feel very uncomfortable after being bullied and want to fight back immediately. Maybe at this time, children will directly start work. This is a kind of self-defense psychology of children. It is good for parents to let their children establish a sense of self-protection. However, we should tell children not to hit people, let alone take the initiative to attack others.

2. Make children aware of their mistakes and learn to solve problems independently

Conflicts will inevitably arise when people get along with each other. Only by letting children solve their own contradictions can they cultivate their problem-solving ability and let them know that it is normal to have different ideas and opinions.

As in the above example, the boy beat the girl. As parents, we should let the children know that beating is wrong. You can say to your child, "You said goodbye, and that's your fault." Let the children realize their mistakes.

Then ask the child, "So what should you do next?" Can guide children, children are hurt by you, what should I say to her? We should learn to cultivate children's ability to think and solve problems by themselves.

Third, it is very important to cultivate children's good character and habits

If children want to have a good character and good habits, they need to be cultivated from an early age and educated from every bit of daily life!

We all hope that children can become a popular person, a caring and caring person!

In our daily life, we always meet children who are angry, rebellious, angry, and don't listen to reason. We are troubled, troubled, and even crazy because of children's various conditions, and many conflicts between parents and children arise from this, which seriously deviates from our initial intention of loving children.

Cultivating children's good character and habits will bring them double success in life and study.