How to refute when others laugh at themselves?

When faced with the ridicule of others, you can refute it in the following ways:

Silence: when others laugh at you, don't refute it at the first time, because at the moment of being laughed at, refutation will make the mocker feel more fulfilled and laugh at you more and more.

Proof: There are many reasons for being ridiculed, such as lies being exposed, life being looked down upon, doing some stupid things and so on. But in the final analysis, you can't prove yourself, so you should try your best to prove it and let the future refute ridicule.

Self-mockery: When a joke becomes irrefutable helplessness, accepting ridicule or even self-mockery is the only choice for optimistic response to ridicule.

Leave: When being ridiculed, it must be very embarrassing. Choosing to leave can not only save face, but also properly stop the mocking atmosphere.

Anger: When faced with unreasonable ridicule, appropriate anger can express one's feelings, deter the mockers and end this unreasonable behavior.

Alarm: When some jokes extend to personal dignity and even affect a person's life, warning and alarm are definitely not unacceptable behaviors.

Being laughed at or laughing at others is an inevitable thing in life, and it is most important to adjust your mentality.

Skilled people always like to laugh at others and be self-righteous. When others succeed, they will say jealously, "It's just a coincidence. What's the big deal? I can do it too. " To put it bluntly, they are just deceiving themselves who are useless but don't like to work hard. Such people are extremely inferior and conceited.

From a psychological point of view, this is a kind of attribution bias, self-help attribution bias, which tends to attribute others' success externally to their own success internally. According to Jin Shenghua's self-value orientation theory, this is actually a protection of self-value.

People who have no skills are easy to get hurt, and people who have no morals will naturally vent their emotions on others. Have a little morality, try to avoid hurting yourself, and don't want others to mention or like others to show off.

Some people have nothing to do, living in the world is worthless, and they will pay attention to other people's lives. Others are excellent, naturally unwilling, and they must be pulled down to stand at the same height as themselves in order to feel at ease. Liu Xiang is the only athlete who really beat the black man on the straight, even setting a record that even the white man didn't do. Liu Xiang participated in 48 world competitions, won 36 championships, finished 6 second places and 3 third places, but some people only remember that he retired twice.

Don't argue with those glib people. People who live well are busy enjoying life. Those who live a bad life and have a bad heart only hope that others are equally unhappy, and then try to cut off their happiness with their meanness. Ignore these people and love yourself.