What if confession is rejected and becomes a joke?

Girls are generally thin-skinned and shy. When you meet a boy you like, you will be particularly flustered and secretly love each other. Of course, there was a time when you kept hinting, but the other person didn't notice anything, which was very maddening. At this time, you will take the initiative to confess to the boy you like. If we are together, of course it is sweet, but some boys don't like you and will refuse you. Two people will reach a tacit understanding invisibly, that is, both sides will feel embarrassed.

In fact, most of the reasons why you feel embarrassed are because you think too much. Boys are suddenly confessed by you and have no feelings for you. After rejecting you, he will feel very sad and think that you will hate him. Their minds are not so delicate, they don't care too much about people they don't like, and they don't care whether they communicate with you. Maybe it's because I like him and I'm afraid being too close to you will cause your misunderstanding and I won't say hello when I meet him.

As a girl, after being rejected, you must be very sad, feel humiliated and regret it. I'm sure I'll have this feeling, "if I hadn't told him at that time, I might still be friends." It's too embarrassing now to be friends in the future. " In fact, at this time, you still like him in your heart, but after being hit, you will avoid him and dare not meet him for fear that he will become more and more disgusted with you.

If you really want to ease the atmosphere between two people, you can ask him out in your spare time and sit down and have a good talk. Speak your true thoughts, let him know that you don't want to be embarrassed for two people all the time, and boldly tell him that you want to be friends with him. Meet him boldly in the future, put aside the embarrassing thoughts in each other's hearts, and maybe we can become normal friends!