How to start adding a girl on WeChat for the first time?

The first time to add a WeChat opening statement

1. The WeChat message given to the girl with her consent

If the person you are introducing is given to you with the girl’s consent WeChat, it shows that the girl is single now and wants to know you. After all, the person introduced by a friend is reliable. For the WeChat added in this situation, both parties know that the two people are in love. , the opening statement can be like the following:

1. Emoticon opening statement

You can directly send emoticons from your WeChat emoticon package, such as laughing, cute, and cute. Da, hello, etc. It’s simple without too many tricks, and it can also test whether the other party is interested in you. If he is interested, the other party will reply to you. You must know that it is basically impossible for a girl to take the initiative in a chat. The next step is I need you to provide a chat topic.

2. Start from the Moments

After adding the other person’s WeChat, first take a general look at the other person’s Moments to have a basic understanding of the girl, and then look for the girl based on the content of the Moments. Topics, the content of a girl’s circle of friends must be of interest to her, otherwise she would not display it in her circle of friends.

For example, if she often posts fitness photos in her circle of friends, you can say: "Girls who like fitness have strong self-discipline."

Or if she often posts photos of work in her circle of friends, then you can say: "Capture a workaholic"

Or if she often posts selfies, then you can say : "So you are a selfie expert"

3. Humorous opening remarks

Humor is the lubricant that enhances relationships, and humorous boys are very popular with girls. Interesting opening remarks can Leaving a good impression on a girl from the beginning will be of great help to your relationship in the future. I have tried this technique time and time again.

For example, you can say: "The handsome man speaks first."

"My surname is Wang, and Wang is the 'Zhou' from the surname of King Zhou, Wu and Zheng." The girl laughed so hard)

"Hello, nice to meet you, please start tricking me"

4. Praise opening remarks

Praise is very easy to attract It's a way to get closer to strangers. If you praise well enough, you can open up the other person's conversation in an instant. Remember that compliments are not flattering or flattering, otherwise they will leave a greasy impression on the other person at the beginning.

You can start with your avatar: "Your avatar is pretty good-looking, does it have any meaning in it?"

You can start with your photos: "Looking at your photos, I feel that you are very handsome. A classy girl.”

You can start with makeup: "You look cute when you put on lipstick"

5. State your status and feelings as an opening statement

If you start with "Hello" "Are you there?" "Have you eaten?" There is nothing new in such opening remarks, and girls will not feel that you are special. Asking questions can change your thinking. Use interrogative sentences in the form of declarative sentences, and then add your own feelings. This sentence will become fuller.

For example, if you have just finished working out, you can say something like this: "I just came out of the gym and feel much better. Do you like working out?"

Or if you are working out. When eating, you can say: "The braised spicy chicken is so good for rice. I even finished a bowl of rice. Do you like spicy food?"

2. WeChat messages added by girls without knowing

1. When a girl adds WeChat without her consent, the girl will be very defensive.

If your relatives and friends introduce the girl’s WeChat to you without her knowledge, it will be difficult to chat after adding it to the girl’s WeChat, because now everyone pays great attention to their privacy. She doesn’t want her personal information to be leaked easily, and the girl’s mind is very delicate. She may wonder, “Is my ex-boyfriend testing me?” “Or maybe her parents are testing her.” “Or maybe it’s a liar trying to deceive me.” she".

2. It will leave a girl with the impression that you are a coward

You add her WeChat account without her consent, even if you tell her that she is your relative If a friend introduces you, she will also think, "Since this boy wants to get to know me, why don't you tell me?" This will leave the girl with the impression that you are not confident.

In this case, you should open the door with the girl sincerely and tell her: "I was introduced by xxx and added you on WeChat. I added you on WeChat because I want to get to know you." Use sincerity to eliminate her defensiveness towards you.