I'm afraid of others joking, and people around me think joking is normal. I'm often troubled by this. What should I do?

You know, the problem is yourself, so if you want to change, change yourself.

They joke with you because they think they have a good relationship with you, so you won't be angry. Think about this and control your emotions.

Put yourself in others' shoes. If you joke with others, they will immediately hang up their faces for you to see. How do you feel?

There are so many people in the world that you can't like everyone. Force yourself to accept the reality. At least don't let others feel your strong dislike.

In addition, if you don't want to hear what they say, you can try to change the subject, such as smiling and asking your boyfriend where to eat at night.

If there are too many jokes, just tell others. I don't like your jokes, but you must have a good attitude!

Finally, please understand that it is not you who are changing the world, but the world is changing you. People who can't adapt to their surroundings will eventually be eliminated.

Please think about it. If you had a good relationship with them, what would happen now? Will they always speak ill of you behind your back and watch your jokes? If it is still a personality problem, the best way is to treat them as strangers and change the subject from time to time when they are talking, showing indifference. Don't show them what you look like when you are angry, then they will be meaningless. Usually this is because of their jealousy.

If they are not such people, then deliberately befriend them, go shopping, eat together, and get to know each other better. Maybe they will change their views on you and stop saying that. They may be getting back at you in this way, because your attitude now makes them very uncomfortable.