Some personal feelings and experiences about tutoring children's homework

December 14th, 219? Saturday? It's cloudy

I just read the article "I didn't write my homework, and my father threw it at the railway station at 3 am, and sent a bowl to beg!" ? After accompanying my parents to read Another Crazy One, I not only laughed, not gloating, nor mocking, but thinking of the dribs and drabs after I helped my children with their homework ... < P > I believe that all parents who helped their children with their homework can feel the same way. Since the baby entered the first grade, her academic performance was ok, and her personality was well-behaved, but even when I helped her with her homework, I once collapsed and was crazy. I even thought about letting her go without writing, and I will drop whatever I like, and I will never care about her again ...

Don't listen to your homework, yell at her, and the more you yell at her, the more calm she becomes, as if it were me. What can you do with me? Sometimes I want to beat her up when I am angry, and I really collapsed when I was angry ...

Just two days ago, I came back from a business trip, and I didn't get together for more than ten days. All aspects needed to be re-adjusted. I also admitted that I had my own emotional problems at that time. I finished my homework that night because I dictated new words and asked her to write again, but I didn't want to write, and then I was angry and "ran away from home". I'm afraid I can't help hitting her ... Haha, it sounds like a joke now, and others listen to it like a joke, but at that time, that kind of situation, that kind of mood can only be understood by personal experience!

No matter how angry I am, I don't advocate hitting my child, swearing at my child when I am angry, and taking all my emotions out on my child, such as "Why are you so stupid?" "You still made a mistake in such a simple question?" "You don't understand what I said?" "If you don't study hard, you will be a big idiot and can't do anything well in the future." "If you can't study, what can you do?" ""Look at someone who studies well. "

Of course, you can't do anything that is dangerous to your child's health! At this time, parents' emotions often have a great influence on their children. How do you solve things? Children are also learning. The way you handle problems is the way she handles them. Therefore, whenever I think about this sentence, I always hold myself back when I get angry again. It is really difficult to adjust myself so that I can communicate with my children calmly.

But after I did this, I gradually found that when she cheated, when she deliberately made you angry, you can still communicate with her calmly, help her to guide her bad mood slowly, and after adjustment, she can also cooperate with her homework well!

at this time, yelling often doesn't work, guiding, praising, encouraging, or seeing what problem she doesn't want to do. After seeing the problem, you can follow her and say, well, this problem is really difficult, and I won't do it either!

Proper weakness in front of children can sometimes make children face problems more bravely. At this time, my little girl will say, actually, I can do this, and it's not difficult, haha, the problem will be solved easily!

Whether you can finish your homework happily or not depends on your child's state and mood. If you keep a good mood, you will finish your homework happily!

The above is my feeling and experience. I think so much, so much is recorded. Anyway, I will encounter new problems every day, and I am trying to figure out how to get along with her better and constantly fight with my children.

haha, there is a saying that ginger is still old and spicy, so come on, little ones, as long as we keep studying hard and make progress every day like the children, it will be fun to "fight" with our children!

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