Don't chat like this when you want to get back together with your ex.

Some feelings are usually cherished after they are finished until the other person completely gives up your daily life. How do you want me to reply? Your boyfriend's ex is always pestering him, and you realize that the other person you want to attract is the one you have to be. But if you want to get back together with your ex, you realize that no matter what you do, you can't succeed.

In fact, most marriages and friends are killed by each other's cynicism.

If you want to get back together with your ex, language expression is a very lethal thing, which can turn a good thing into a bad thing or a bad thing into a good thing. Therefore, if you make mistakes in the whole process of retaining, it is very likely that you will delay everyone's progress and even lose each other all the time.

After most couples break up, they must be saying in the whole process of getting along: how much I have done for you, how much I have invested in you, how can you break up with me? In addition to saying this sentence, it is very likely that you will continue to list many things in the past, but have you ever thought about the use of saying this now?

You have been talking about their situation. In order to remind each other that you were good before, the other party broke up with you. The key reason is that you are not good enough. At this time, you have been talking about this kind of thing, which is likely to cause the other party's dissatisfaction. You will think that all the good things you have done before have a certain picture, and then slowly become disputes, which leads to an increase in the difficulty coefficient of your retention.

When you stay, you are undoubtedly saying to them: When can you correct your shortcomings? Only I am willing to bear you.

You think you will occupy an important influence in the other person's heart, but in fact, after everyone breaks up, it is necessary for the other person to get used to your idea. In addition, you may misjudge your influence, and it may be incorrect that the other party will tolerate you after breaking up.

In the case of unsuccessful retention, you will undoubtedly make up for this slap in the face: if you don't come back with me, your boyfriend's ex will always haunt him, and you will definitely regret it later. Such paranoid thoughts always make the other side stick to their own ideas. If you want to escape from your control faster, at this time, the probability of your being retained has long been confused.

After breaking up, you will probably say: I really love you, I can do anything for you, don't leave me. This kind of giving up one's happiness and self-esteem and blindly using one's own way is to reach the other party, and according to this humble method, to get the service promise of the other party, so as to impress the other party's heart, but this kind of words will only show one's high sense of demand and drive the other party to show a cold and contradictory attitude towards you.

In fact, after we did break up, you thought it would be effective to be divorced from reality. How do you want me to reply? The best way is to talk less and do more, and take practical actions to deal with the problems and differences raised by everyone, so as to ensure the real recovery of the predecessor at the root.