Wang Lin, 50, admitted that Lei Fang was not suitable for her. Why?

Regarding the interview with Wang Lin, Wang Lin talked about her love experience and work in recent years. As can be seen from the interview, Wang Lin herself and her strong impression are different. Wang Lin admits that there are many divorced actresses with children in the entertainment circle, and they can also create independent women for themselves to get a second job opportunity. In short, Wang Lin, who looks very independent and proud, began to be cautious at the critical moment, which subverted our image of her.

First, repetition is fear.

In the face of Wang Lin's repetition, some people who know about it said that Wang Lin was afraid, and she admitted it herself. What are you afraid of? Fear of being hurt, fear of bringing a burden to others, fear of leaving my son to talk about love, will feel guilty. This is all revealed by Wang Lin herself in the program. First of all, Wang Lin thinks that the age gap in Lei Fang is inappropriate. She described herself as having no quality all her life and didn't want to put the other person under that kind of pressure. If I start another marriage, I will feel guilty about my son. She always calmly analyzes that what she needs is a sophisticated, steady and down-to-earth person. Because she is old and young, what will her family do if she encounters a fire? Seeing Wang Lin's reasons, we all said that Wang Lin didn't dare to accept Lei Fang because she had a good life.

Second, transparency is bought by despair.

These worries and feelings are not only brought about by age, but also stem from the unsatisfactory experience I experienced in my marriage. We all know that she studied in Russia when she was in her twenties. When she came back from school, she was noticed for her role in the Pearl River. It was at that time that a rich man in Hong Kong took a fancy to her and stayed with her without thinking about it, but it didn't take long for him to divorce and break up. After that, she returned to the film and television circle, but now she has lost many good opportunities, and some plays are also tepid. It was not until 200 1 that Aunt Xue, who played in "It's raining cats and dogs", got our attention again. But it is also because this role is so well-known, it is difficult for the audience to separate from her and the characters, and the image is solidified and difficult to break.

Now 50 years old, she has become the experienced person who wants results, so she will shrink back. She won't dare to take this step until she is sure that the other person is the one who can live with her forever. Maybe when she came to the show, she didn't think she could really find true love. Behind the fear, she was calm. So we can always feel her opposition to building high walls and her yearning for love. The more she is like this, the more distressing she is. I sincerely hope that Wang Lin can meet the right love, but I am afraid that the person she found is not suitable. Finally, you have to get hurt. I can't help feeling that what Wang Lin said is really reasonable.

What can you see through her?

Some people may say, since she doesn't want to love, why did she come? In fact, whether this relationship between Wang Lin and Lei Fang can be put aside or not, at least, Wang Lin represents some single women and shows us the real inner world of those who are eager for love but dare not love. This is also the meaning of this program: seeing different people's psychological activities in the face of love and their decisions will also bring us some inspiration. Besides, it's right to come to this program. Our impression of her always stays on the characters in the TV series. Only in this program can we get to know her more truly. When dating Lei Fang, it was fun, too. At this age, Lei Fang was dragged to an amusement park to ride a roller coaster. Obviously, he was scared to death, but he still insisted on smiling in the air. After coming down, his soul was almost gone.

She once told a joke on the show that men's goals have three stages. The first stage is that there is a thief's heart but no thief's courage. The second stage is that there is a thief's heart but no thief's courage. In the third stage, the thief took all the money and the thief left. This kind of joke should be on her. What's wrong with that? A proud woman is so helpless in the face of love. Everyone says that love makes people braver, but she is weaker because of love. Therefore, I hope that Wang Lin can always maintain her enthusiasm for the day, dare to pursue love, and believe that she can meet the right person. What do you think differently about this? Welcome everyone to discuss together.