Why do you say, "If you really love ta, don't live together easily"?

Every couple is inseparable when they first get together, and they can't wait to be together every minute. I also believe that every couple may be full of longing for cohabitation. We look forward to working together, living together, cooking together, doing housework together, lying in bed together, staying at home together on weekends and having a home of our own. Thinking is full of sweet happiness, but there are some things that need your attention and you should be prepared in advance.

Cohabitation means that two people who love each other live together temporarily, and now it is generally used between the opposite sex. Cohabitation is different from marriage. Marriage is a legally recognized relationship between husband and wife, which cannot be dissolved casually and must go through certain legal procedures. Cohabitation is an act that is not recognized by law and has no legal guarantee. During cohabitation, the man and the woman can break up and terminate the relationship at any time.

Speaking of cohabitation, many people will think that the woman is definitely the one who suffers. Indeed, from ancient times to the present, we even think that living together as a girl is equal to getting married. Because of this, they will bear some strange eyes of the world, and many parents will think that their daughters live with men too early? Price drop? This idea.

Really? Price drop? This idea is not groundless. In marriage, it is the same as some punishments on our school resume. If you get married smoothly and live happily after cohabitation, then don't talk about it. However, according to China's current statistics, 80% of cohabitants are not married, which is terrible. Are you sure you will be one of those 20%?

We in China are rather conservative, and it is impossible to say that people who live together early will leave a woman who doesn't love herself. Who can guarantee that a relationship is smooth,

Living together too early is irresponsible to yourself and your future partner.

Our future partner, no one can be sure that he is with us now. If not, will your future marriage partner mind? How can we be sure that the other family will mind?

Then we must never decide to live together during the period of love. At this stage, both men and women are blind, and it is not a simple joke to be carried away by love. At this time, our consideration is not comprehensive enough to face all the unknowns in our future life.

Many people think that early cohabitation of two people who love each other can make us love each other more and get to know each other better. Indeed, I don't deny it. But that doesn't prove anything. Simply put, it is because we want to live together, and living together has become our desire. We live together because of desire. Because two people live face to face every day, even if we are strangers, we can get to know each other well. Have we forgotten that we don't have to live together to understand each other? .

We need to know that these are all time-sensitive, just like our love period. Once we live together, we haven't been able to properly handle any emotions and contradictions between us, and two people will soon become unhappy with each other. Even if the person we love again experiences trivial things in life, problems will begin to appear.

For a simple example, who cleans? I just finished cleaning. Why did you get dirty again? In the short term, you and I can do it. In the long run? When you hear what you say, one party will be the last straw. Or help me wash clothes at first, and then slowly switch to washing clothes and go to wash clothes.

We are used to using imperative tone in our life. The more intimate people are, the more this will happen. After we live together, these situations may become our hidden dangers one day. Sometimes whoever takes out the garbage may make us blush, and our daily life makes us unable to guarantee anything.

Cohabitation means that marriage problems will appear in advance, and we will lose a lot of privacy space for each other, especially for us who are used to living alone. Suddenly two people live together, and one day you can't live alone unless you break up.

When we are alone, we will always envy the lives of two people, but when we are alone, we will definitely begin to envy the lives of one person.

Moreover, many people live together prematurely, which leads to the last party dragging on not getting married, and even feels that it is very good now. Why do you have to struggle for a marriage certificate and then start a marriage tug-of-war?

This is the psychology of our people. Once this idea arises in our hearts, it is easy for us to exclude each other in words and deeds, which will hurt each other invisibly.

It is said that cohabitation is a happy life, and I am no exception. I am envious. However, under the premise that we can't guarantee the happiness of cohabitation, I think we need to be prepared. Personally, I think cohabitation is a very important thing in our life and we need to think twice. Be sure to care about it before and after, and two people must have the heart that you must not marry in this life.

Some people may ask how to prepare. Actually, there is no standard answer to this question. Everyone gets along in different ways and has unique thinking. My suggestion is that when one day, we want to get married and spend the rest of our lives with this person, no matter what happens, we can stick together and have the determination to grow old together, so we will not be tempted by anything again.

At this time, we will live together again, and at this time, cohabitation may have been? Trial marriage? Yes

When writing this article, I asked all my single and unmarried friends around me as much as possible what they thought of the word cohabitation. The results of simple investigation and statistics are mostly as follows:

1: Cohabitation without marriage will kill the whole family (girls account for 80%), indicating that most parents do not want their children to live together prematurely. There must be a reason.

2. It is the most ideal state to get engaged first and then live together, otherwise the name will not be justified (the ratio of men and women is the same), which I agree with most.

Combining these three points, plus my own point of view, I think it is no problem for couples to live together. The key is whether they can be happy after living together.

Can we bear all the good and bad consequences? When two people live together in the process of love, the decision is always in your own hands, but I hope all of us can agree and understand this second rule.

When two people are in love, I think the best state is to focus on yourself when you are alone. When you are in love, you have the ability to hug each other.

My life is not impossible without you, but it will be better with you.

Living together is beautiful,

But I hope everyone really understands that cohabitation does not mean that two people simply live together.