Are psychological counselors effective?

It works, if someone tells you a joke, you will laugh happily the first time, you may still laugh the second time, and you will definitely not laugh the third time. If someone calls you an idiot, you will be angry. If someone calls you an idiot again, you will be even more angry. If he calls you an idiot again, will you jump up and fight with him?

Then the problem is, in the same way, if it causes joy, the effect will decrease, and if it causes anger, the effect will increase. This is a question of psychology, a science related to the quality of our lives.

Let’s imagine that our child broke the vase and cut his hand. We would be very distressed. Immediately get iodine, gauze to bandage, and finally a band-aid to put it on.

Let’s imagine another scene. The vase is still broken, but the child is not injured. Then you think it was the child who broke it, and you scold him. The child feels aggrieved and starts crying. At this time, did you go to see the child's injured hand, comfort him, clarify the matter, and provide psychological counseling to the child.

Psychological trauma is far more difficult to heal than physical trauma, and the damage has penetrated deep into the subconscious. People who usually look normal will behave differently when they receive a little stimulation or encounter an extreme environment. It's hard to understand.

In fact, most of us adults live with psychological scars. Psychological counselors are people who repair our psychological scars, so the importance of psychological counselors is far more important than we think. Psychological counselors are suitable for these professions:

1. Professional psychological counselors. To solve psychological problems, professional knowledge and scientific methods are required. This cannot be achieved without systematic learning, and it is impossible to gain recognition from patients without reliable certificates. Patient trust is the primary condition for solving psychological problems.

2. Preschool teachers and teachers. Kindergartens and teachers are the direct guides to children’s mental health. In some aspects, they have greater influence than parents. If they do not have enough understanding of children’s psychology and have no way to guide children’s psychological problems, they will not be fully qualified for this job. Professional.

3. Enterprise human resources managers. Human resources management is no longer as simple as sending out recruitment information and taking attendance notes. Today's human resources management shoulders important tasks such as employee training, employee motivation, employee ideological guidance, and team culture building.