What do children think after their parents cheat?

Everyone knows that the bond of a family lies in children, and couples can't do things that hurt children. They can't quarrel in front of the children. They can't impose their ideas on their children. These are all acts that hurt children. Especially cheating, no matter who cheats, it will do great harm to children, and outsiders will also discriminate against children. In the long run, children's psychology will inevitably be distorted. So, what do children think after their parents cheat? These three are telling the truth.

Miss Qiu is 22 years old this year

When I was 0/5 years old, my mother betrayed this family. My mother is always kind to me. At that time, I thought my mother's uncle was really just an uncle. It turned into my hatred. My father knew that he had quarreled with his mother. I can't take it anymore. I have to go to my grandmother's house. In the face of grandma's criticism of my mother, I hate my mother more and more. Later, my neighbors knew about my mother's cheating, and even my classmates at school knew that I was ridiculed and discriminated against by outsiders and classmates, which made me want to die.

Not surprisingly, they divorced. When choosing between mother and father, I choose to follow my father. I know my parents often quarrel over family trifles, but my mother betrayed this family and made me suffer from discrimination and humiliation, so I can't forgive my mother. Later, my mother was with that uncle and got to know him. My mother asked me to call him uncle, but I hate this man too much to call him uncle.

Now that I have grown up, my mother chose to break up with that uncle because I couldn't accept it. Until now, my mother still lives alone. I think a lot now, and I will live with my mother occasionally. As for my parents' remarriage, it is basically impossible.

Mr. Su is 35 years old this year

It really makes me sad to recall my father's affair at this age. At the age of twelve, my father insisted on being with that woman. This is a scandal known to all schools. I remember that period deeply. Now I remember. It's really painful Even if I get married and have children, I am still in pain.

Later, the woman chose to break up with her father. My father went home and asked her mother for forgiveness. My mother chose to forgive him. Now we still live together, but I always have an aversion to my father, because every time I see my father, I will think of my mother crying in the room. Now that I have children, I also took my mother to live with me, but I left my father alone. After so many years of indifference, my father knew my thoughts very well, so he didn't say anything. I have worked alone for so many years. I will give my mother the money I have when I go home. My mother gave it to me, probably to make up for it. It's just that money can't make up for this scar

Conclusion: No matter who parents cheat, it is harmful to children and an indelible scar in their hearts. This kind of thing will take root in the child's heart. It is suggested that people who are quarreled by their families should not affect the child's fault. The child is innocent. If the communication between husband and wife is not good, please treat it rationally.