Why did Sima Yi have the last laugh?

Why did Sima Yi grow up in the cracks during the Three Kingdoms period and laugh at the end? In fact, it has little to do with whether he can endure or live. To sum up, he hides three dead holes that people need to hide most!

One: at the beginning, hide your "heart"

Some people say that it is more important to stand in the right team than to work hard. Although somewhat biased, it reflects the truth. In fact, "standing in line" is equivalent to "entering the circle", that is, looking for the most suitable development soil for yourself-this is the first dead hole! Because once the circle is broken, it is equivalent to uprooting.

Sima Yi is obviously a master here. At the age of 22, Cao Cao heard about his talent and wanted to conquer him. But Sima Yi refused. The reason is that Sima Yi thinks that the situation is still unclear and prefers to pretend to be ill rather than make a phone call.

As a result, a few years later, when Cao Cao conquered him for the second time, he soon came out of the mountain. Many people say that this is Sima Yi's understanding of the situation. At this moment, Cao Cao is very unified in the north, and he will be killed if he doesn't come out. But in fact, Sima Yi played a cunning role, because Cao Cao's second conquest was Sima Yi recommended by Yu Xun.

Yu Xun was the boss of the nobility at that time. So Sima Yi chose to stand behind the gentry. Because Sima Jia was also an cremation, Sima Yi actually put his foundation in the cremation circle and finally became the boss of the cremation circle.

Then why did Sima Yi take pains to choose circles and offend Cao Cao? You should know that the circle does not provide you with resources and contacts from the beginning, it depends on your development. The first essence of the circle is to provide some kind of protection! Therefore, although Sima Yi offended Cao Cao, he was still able to gain a foothold and grow stronger.

Thus, Sima Yi, Chen Qun, Yang Xiu and others became the rising stars of the gentry class. At this moment, Sima Yi once again showed great insight, stood behind xelloss with Chen Qun, and once again chose the right circle. And Yang Xiu chose Cao Zhi's circle, which leads to the second protected "dead hole".

Number two: shut up during the game.

The biggest difference between Yang Xiu and Sima Yi is not whether they are smart or not, nor whether they are in different circles-in fact, when Cao Cao chose his successor, not only the aristocratic circle of the gate, but even Cao Cao's Xiahou circle began to bet or wait and see at both ends.

So what is the biggest difference between the two? Yang Xiutai can show, but Sima Yi can stop. Yang Xiu loves acting, the fundamental reason is to gain more room for development, so he was finally deceived by cleverness. On the other hand, Sima Yi, although also for development, is very strict.

For example, after Cao Cao captured Hanzhong, Sima Yi once suggested Cao Cao: Take Xichuan while it is hot! Cao Cao refused. Sima Yi didn't say anything at that time, even if Cao Cao regretted it afterwards, he didn't say a word. Two years later, the battle of Hanzhong broke out between Liu Bei and Cao Cao. This time, Cao Cao came with Yang Xiu. As a result, Yang Xiu was killed because of "chicken ribs"!

This is the biggest difference between the two. Both of them tried to figure out Cao Cao's mind, one didn't say a word, and the other tried to show it. The so-called: the more you know, the stricter your mouth will be! At the same time, this is why the better people mix, the more silent they are. Sima Yi and Yang Xiu, both people around Cao Cao, naturally meet this definition!

So no matter how it develops, even if it is temporarily difficult, it is always good to be strict. After all, no one wants to keep a "trumpet", and whatever you do will be "broadcast" for you. Once this dead hole is "hit", it can only be eliminated and it is difficult to turn over.

Third, in the process of development, hide your future.

Some people always like to say, "Do it or not." Take Sima Yi for example, because after the change of Gao Pingling, he suddenly showed his fangs and killed three Cao Shuang families. But is this really the case?

Cao Shuang has a daughter named Xiahou Ling who married Cao Shuang's cousin. After Cao Shuang was punished, her family took her home and ordered her to remarry, drawing a line with the Cao Shuang family. However, Xiahou ordered his daughter to say, "The benevolent does not change his morality by ups and downs, and the righteous does not change his mind by survival. Cao Shisheng, still want to protect the end. Now he is going downhill, why give up? I don't care about animal travel. "

In other words, the benevolent does not change because of ups and downs, and the righteous does not waver because of life and death. Originally, I didn't turn my back on Cao Jiasheng, but now I'm in decline. If I ignore it, animals will do the same. So Xiahou ordered his daughter's nose to be cut off and vowed not to remarry and continue to help the Cao family.

Sima Yi soon learned about it, but he was very moved. He strictly prohibited the harassment and persecution of Xia Houdun's daughter, and let it go! Is this "to do or not to do"? This is not to whitewash anyone, but to explain a truth.

You can't just live, dead or alive. Even the so-called "to do or not to do" is obedience, because this is the death of life! Even Sima Yi, whether training Sima Shi and Si Mazhao or killing Cao Shuang, is the same. At least he knew how to do it, which was equivalent to cutting off his own back, so he made an exception for Xia Houdun.

Many people, but their children and grandchildren suffer! Some people are more confused. They only care about their glory before they die, but they relax their education for their children, so "cheating" things emerge one after another. This is all because this dead hole of life has been hit!

Fourth: General analysis.

To put it bluntly, the first is cooperation (starting), the second is competition (struggle), and the third is room (subsequent development).

Therefore, no matter how hard life is, we should also distinguish whether it is suitable for us, whether the method is correct and whether it is sustainable. Don't deviate from it because of temporary difficulties. Once it deviates, it exposes the dead hole of life.

This is actually the reason why Sima Yi has the last laugh. It is said that he can bear it, but whose life is not suffering? It is said that he can live, but there are plenty of people who can live better than Sima Yi. We have to think about it!