When chatting with a girl, she is hot and cold. How can I arouse her interest?

Let me tell you a story. My classmate Xiao Wei in college has been in love with a pretty girl from a foreign class for many years, but the relationship has always been lukewarm, tepid, and inseparable. Like a little dog, he was surrounding the girl, buying her food and drinks, and running all over the place for her. His legs were getting thin and there was no progress. The relationship was never settled, and he was scratching his head and scratching his head anxiously. Several of our classmates helped him analyze countermeasures. The girl is a rich second generation in the city. Her family is well-off, her material conditions are superior, and she lacks everything. We asked a girl with whom we had many contacts to inquire, and found out that girls like to travel.

One day, it was a sunny weekend and the girl arrived as promised. Xiao Wei and the girl took a car early in the morning to a famous tourist attraction at the border of the two provinces. Unconsciously, the red sun was setting in the west, but the girl was still enjoying herself. The road was winding and winding, and Xiao Wei reminded her again and again, completely ignoring it and unknowingly missing the last train. The girl and Xiao Wei were busy looking for a hotel. The girl said she was scared to live alone, so the two ended up living in a single room. It was settled in one move. After Xiao Wei and the girl returned to school, their relationship took a qualitative leap. They were so intimate that we were both a little jealous. They were no longer hot and cold anymore.

If she really still loves you, then you can be a little colder to her appropriately and don't respond to her requests, so that she can't adapt to life without you, and remind her of your advantages and your love for her. Well, if she treats you like this, she is sure that you will never leave her, and you are still very afraid of her leaving you, so she is confident in everything she does, and will become more unscrupulous as time goes by. You need to let her know your bottom line. Let her feel your emotions. Don't let her feel that you are indispensable to her. You can make her feel a sense of crisis through the opposite sex around you, so that her attitude will change.

If you are not sure whether she loves you or not, then you need to be yourself and work hard. Love is the process of two people attracting each other, not torturing each other. To attract someone, you still need to perfect it first. You should do your own thing well, exercise more, read books to improve your conversation. Some boys who are not so refined can do some skin care, so that your changes will make her more interested in you. And be as nice to her as possible and care for her meticulously, so that she feels happy spending time with you. That way if your competitor comes along, you will definitely win when she weighs it.

Of course, we don’t want this to happen, so we should strive to improve ourselves and put the two of us on an equal footing in the relationship. This way you can avoid this situation from happening.