Why do girls work hard?

There is often such a voice around: "You are a girl, why are you working so hard?" "Girl, don't be so hard. Finding a good marriage is more important than anything else. " "Girls, it is better to marry well than to learn well."

Every time I hear such words, I feel particularly ridiculous. Why do girls work hard? Isn't it just to shut up you people who always question and despise us?

In this real society, no one will be particularly gentle with us because we are girls. On the contrary, many people will have higher requirements for us because of our gender, and even have some malice.

Faced with such a situation, what we can do is to work harder, work harder, let ourselves have more freedom of choice, don't compromise with anyone for money, and don't leave anyone for money, so as to block our mouths and live the life we want.

Maybe you will call me a feminist, but I don't think so. I've seen women who want to be attached to others too much and are abandoned. I have also seen many women get hurt and compromised because they are not independent and strong enough, and fall into the abyss of pain.

If you don't work hard, you will face this kind of injury, so I must tell you that women must work hard, because we deserve a better life, because we have the right to choose the life we want, because we also have to love what we love, hate what we hate, overcome difficulties and forge ahead.

We work hard just to be parents' bulletproof vests one day. Our efforts are to hope that our parents can live a free life one day and don't have to wait for a discount before buying things. We work hard and hope that we can grow up as fast as our parents get old. We work hard to show our parents the beautiful world.

I am a hard-working girl, at least in the eyes of people around me, I really work hard. So I often hear some noise. People think I shouldn't work so hard because it's useless for girls to work hard. Anyway, they will get married, have children and be housewives.

But I know very well that the more people say such things, the harder I have to work, because I have tried to make myself better, so I can stay away from these people.

Girls must believe in the law of attraction. You can attract people like you, and people who like you are as tall as you.

Anyway, there is nothing wrong with a girl working hard. Because you work hard and become strong, you can have the right to choose your emotional destination freely, so your happiness will be higher.

In fact, the real "poetry and distance" is what kind of life we can bring to ourselves. When you have money and leisure, you can travel all over the country, even the world, so that your distance has no boundaries, but if you have no money, your kitchen may be your distance. When you have independent financial ability, you can do what you want, choose the life you want, and make your life full of poetry every day, but if you don't have financial ability, your life state will be decided by others.

You must remember that many times, our efforts are really not for others, but for ourselves, so that we don't have to succumb to others because we have no money, and we don't have to live a miserable life.

As for those who always tell you not to work hard, they can't support you all your life, or even laugh at you when you are down and out. Why should you care about their opinions?

Starting today, work hard, just for yourself.