How should smart people fight back when others bully them?

I felt a lot when I saw this sentence yesterday. For the first time, I saw someone managing themselves as an enterprise.

At the beginning, I thought, how can a person be an enterprise? An enterprise needs so many people, and each department has its own duties.

Later, after meditation, I understood the management and ways of doing things.

In life, we should learn to manage our emotions well. In the process of getting along with classmates, learn not to let negative emotions affect others. In the process of getting along with relatives and friends, we should also manage our own small emotions and be kind to people around us.

Lin Daiyu in A Dream of Red Mansions is a negative example. Her tragedy is also related to her inability to manage herself.

She lost her mother when she was a child and grew up with her cousins. There is a grandmother who loves her, and Jia, the first voice of Jia family, cares about her in every way. Who will bully her in Jia's family and look down on her from top to bottom?

However, she doesn't know how to manage her emotions. Crying all day, moaning without illness. Not only failed to live up to the heart of the person who loved her, but also ruined her body and became a medicine jar.

Originally, Mrs. Jia intended her to marry Baoyu. Who wants her son to marry a medicine jar and go home? Not only is medicine with you all year round, but it is also sentimental.

In this way, I abruptly ruined myself and ruined my bright future. At the moment of death, her favorite person Baoyu married Xue Baochai who knew how to manage herself and her family. They all have a good marriage. I only saw the old wood and stone alliance.

What was supposed to be a beautiful marriage turned into a love tragedy.

This shows that the importance of managing yourself is self-evident.

Only by managing your emotions, time, energy and interpersonal relationships can you make a difference in your life and work!