Why do I advise you to read less, don't believe in chicken soup for the soul, and read more dark and negative words?

At first glance, the title of this article is a bit confusing, which seems very counter-common sense.

Do you believe in chicken soup for the soul when reading?

Listen to the darkness, negative energy?

Everyone is fed up with lying and talking nonsense. Many chicken soups for the soul, their purpose is not to encourage you, nor to cheer you up, but to flaunt themselves. For example:

When you are in trouble, you must consider your responsibility. I used to come from you like this …

In this case, there is a certain probability that he is helping you, and there is a certain probability that the speaker simply wants to brag about how responsible he is.

Chicken soup like this, you can hardly say that it exists to help you and be good to you. More likely, I just regard you as an object of boasting.

and .. / with ..

Someone often says to you:

As long as you work hard, all problems will be solved! You still have problems to solve, which means you haven't worked hard enough!

This statement is wrong.

Anyone with a little life experience knows that hard work can't solve all problems. Problems that can be solved by hard work, humorously speaking, are not big problems.

In that case, should someone else tell you what to do and accuse you of not working hard enough?

Of course, this person is probably your leader or authoritative superior, using his identity to put pressure on you as a bargaining chip to educate you so that you can't refute him.

In this case, if you have worked hard enough, please treat him (her) as a fart.

In addition, there are:

Those who stand on the moral high ground and confuse people will talk nonsense without knowing it. It's easy to stand up and talk, but it's wise after the event, kick down the ladder, watch the fire from the other side, and throw stones when they fall. ...

These, the so-called chicken soup for the soul, will not only help, but also make people fall into deep self-doubt and become more confused and contradictory. Even, let some people feel inferior and guilty: is it all my fault?

Everyone has his own chicken soup for the soul.

In other words, at the right time and on the right occasion, there are corresponding ways to encourage.

There is an old joke, and I try to tell it again in as few words as possible:

There is a chicken farm next to the cliff. There was a weasel who thought of many ways to eat chicken. Finally, it set up a big monument on the edge of the cliff, which read-jump bravely! How do you know you are not an eagle unless you break through yourself?

So, this weasel waits for the dead chicken under the cliff every day.

Did you get a look at him? There are some chicken soup for the soul, written by the weasel.

I believe that most chicken soups for the soul have good intentions. But after distortion and reprocessing, most of them turned into toxic arsenic.

But in this way, is the chicken soup for the soul useless?

Useful.

Can we watch it?

I can see it.

So what kind of chicken soup for the soul is useful and visible?

Not absolute, trying to be impartial, impartial, not standing on the moral high ground to pre-empt, not standing and talking is easy ... Most of these, even if read, are useless and harmless.

And those extreme, extremely subjective, purpose and motivation are not simple chicken soup for the soul, which can only hurt the soul after reading it! Useful, less!

In addition, be suitable for yourself.

Swiss psychologist Jung has a saying: Shoes that fit one person will pinch another person's feet.

"Suit yourself", nothing is more important than these four words.

I sometimes suggest reading more anti-chicken soup words. Even if negative energy erupts!

For example, several jokes that are very popular on the Internet:

At first glance, these "negative energy" jokes are interesting, funny, anti-common sense, and even run counter to our daily values.

However, these jokes are the satire of useless chicken soup that we hear every day, and the banter and gray humor of "caring for the elders", "preaching to parents", "educating mothers" and "expressing condolences to leaders".

It can play the role of counterattack and reverse education from the side.

These "negative energy" words break common sense, violate tradition and make people feel refreshed. At the same time, when they are tired of listening to nonsense, they are completely refreshed.

This is thought-provoking, like a spring breeze!

Undeniably, it has contributed a lot and should be named as a real "positive energy quotation".

Any "chicken soup", "poisonous chicken soup", "positive chicken soup", "negative chicken soup" and "anti-chicken soup" are essentially just a sentence, a text organized by language, trying to clarify and explain some truth.

Therefore, how to use it is more critical than what to use.

Just like a lot of chicken soup now, it is disgusting not because it is disgusting enough, but because it may not be suitable for us. In other words, people who try to instill chicken soup in us are not suitable to be our teachers.

Therefore, it is very important to find the chicken soup that suits you.

There are thousands of reasons for Qian Qian in the world, but they are all dead. And people are alive.

No one wants to be educated as a fool, no one wants to listen to correct nonsense, no one wants to be kidnapped and killed by poisonous truth …

So, "give up" positive energy!

Read more facts and language with practical educational significance.

For human beings, it is always more important to see suffering clearly than to cover it up.

For example, when the smog came, we said, "This smog is very serious. Protect yourself and wear a mask. You don't have to do it if you want to get sick! "

Compared with-"The smog is coming this time, but even if it is found that it can't stop the smog from entering the mouth, try not to let the smog enter the heart ..."

Stronger, 10 times.