What is the saddest thing for men?

"The saddest thing for a man is to meet a woman who wants to take care of his life when he is most helpless."

I'm confused. Have you ever asked the girl you love what kind of life she wants?

Not everyone needs material satisfaction, and real happiness cannot be possessed by material things. After all, it is the person you decide to spend your life with, the girl you decide to take care of, and whether you have a kind heart.

I always hear a lot of confidences about finding someone: if I can meet you in the future and give you the happiness you want, I am willing to pick the stars for you; I will try my best to make you happy; I will do my best to let you live the life you want.

Whenever I hear such an oath, I am not touched at all. Do you know what the person you love needs? Have you seriously considered what life you want to be like?

How many people miss it, just because of temporary self-esteem.

"You wait for me, and I will come back with beautiful scenery to marry you." When the man left, the girls looked at each other. Waiting and waiting, she finally failed to find the person she wanted. When the man came back, the girl married someone else. "It's not that I can't wait, but that I will miss you eventually." What you miss is not the reality gap, but that you don't have a heart that really wants to be better.

You keep saying that you love her, but you may not really know the life she wants.

Once some love is missed, it can only be missed.

Junko said that she would never love such a person again in her life. Wait, wait, wait, wait for so long, but the man still hasn't come back.

As the sun sets, Junko remembers what Omori said when he left:

"Junko, wait for me. I'll come back to marry you after I pay attention to myself. I will definitely work hard and afford a house. " Junko looked at Omori's distant back and said nothing. Her eyes were full of tears, and she wanted to tell Omori, "I don't want anything. Can you stay?"

Junko didn't understand what a good life would be like when Omori always said he would give her a good life. Can you live a good life if you can afford a house? Could it be that money is a good life?

But this is not what Junko wants. How much does it cost? Junko doesn't like so-called designer bags and cosmetics. She thinks very simply. It is enough to have a man to accompany you to live a good life at work every day.

It is the most difficult to wait for an uncertain person with unwarranted expectations.

Junko is married. She married a man who is not very annoying but willing to live a good life.

"Don't worry, I will take good care of you later. I will treat you wholeheartedly. " The man who lived a good life didn't cheat Junko. Junko is not feeling well and has a stomachache in the middle of the night. The man was the first to run to the hospital with a straight back. Junko wants something to eat, and men always roll up their sleeves to do it.

After living in Junko for five years, Omori came back.

Omori's eyes were red and he asked Junko why he didn't wait for him. Junko cried. You could have done it, but you left because of your pride. The life I want is not what I want, and you never know me.

Not all women are material, and material is not the happiness that all women want.

In feelings, there will always be men who use women's material things as an excuse.

"I'm so useless, can't give you the happiness you want. I can't even afford to buy you a bag. "

"I can't afford the house you want."

"Forget it, or you can wait for me."

"I want to take good care of you, but I have no ability."

Maybe the life a woman wants is to buy a brand-name bag, some clothes and some cosmetics. To tell the truth, if such a person, life is too superficial.

Life is not a house to buy a bag, but a so-called life. This is just external. What we really need is a heart to live with you.

Touch my heart, I don't have any luxuries myself. The most expensive bags are no more than those in 500 yuan. I also complained to my husband, "Look, I don't even have a decent bag", but I got cold feet when my husband asked me to buy it. Do I need to spend a lot of money on a bag? It seems unnecessary.

Finally, I didn't buy a brand-name bag. Yes, I am a little girl, and I can't even part with 2000 yuan. That may be a month's living expenses for our family. And that so-called brand-name bag is not so attractive to me.

I carry a designer bag, so what? I am not expensive. A person's true value and happiness can't be covered by the so-called external energy.

True nobility is that you can afford to wear famous brands and coarse cloth.

I finally found a 18 yuan messenger bag, which was quite comfortable to carry all day. Things are not expensive, but whether you like them or not.

Take me now, luxury goods have no attraction for me. I will spend my money on my life. Even if we can't travel, it's enough to walk around Xiamen.

True happiness is when the person you like is with you. You are worried about each other's daily necessities, have a common goal in life, and have a good life. This is a rare sense of happiness in the world.

In real life, there are many silly girls in the eyes of laymen, but not all women are so materialistic.

Tell a short story, we often see that in a big house, men earn money day and night, and women can only wait until dawn. Women are very annoying, and I hope men can spend more time with them. The man was very angry. "Don't you love money? I have given you everything, the life you want, what else do you want? " Men don't understand that women want warmth.

Go home. This family is not just about money.

External material can never compare with a fiery heart.

Sister Miao asked her mother more than once, what kind of person should I marry? I don't want to find rich people.

Mom smiled. "There is not much money, but people are the key." No matter how rich you marry, I won't go to your mother for anything as long as you look down on others. What is money? Being rich is nothing. The man you married has little money. As long as you two can live a good life, you can live a good life. After all, you chose, that person is the most important. "

Sister Miao really didn't marry a rich man. She married a down-to-earth person who lived with her. At first, there was nothing between them, and the man was willing to fight. After three or five years, they bought a car and a house, and they lived a comfortable life. Although they don't have much money and have a lot of mortgage pressure, they are still very happy.

"Afraid of what, money is not saved, it is earned. There is not much money, just enough to spend. With me, you won't have a hard life. " Sister Miao said that she chose the right person, the one who really accompanied her all her life.

Now there are some poisonous chicken soup, which always teaches women materialism. It seems that a woman's happy life means that she can afford bags, shoes and cosmetics. If you have Chanel and Dior, you are really happy.

External material only satisfies your vain heart. What you want, the external material gives you temporary happiness, what you really need, think about what you need.

Men don't say that they can't give happiness to women they like. Do you know what she wants? Not the so-called bag shoes.

Life goes by slowly. After all, matter is the ornament of life. What we need most is a heart that dares to live a good life.

Even if I have nothing, I can't spell out any kind of life with my hands and feet.

After all, it's a question of whether you want it or not.

"I can't do anything, but I want to take care of you all my life." Put away your disobedience, you can't do it at all, and don't prevaricate.

? A thoughtful housewife. Wechat official account: Liming ID: yibao 8690