"Ode to Joy 2" Fan Shengmei: How terrible is ignorance?

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Three girls, Fan Shengmei, Guan Juer and Qiu Yingying, who came to Shanghai from other places to work hard, shared a suite, and lived on the 22nd floor of a middle-grade residential area called "Ode to Joy" with Andy, a high IQ returnee with golden collar, and Qu Xiaoyu, a charming rich girl. Five women who are different in dressing, emotional development, family of origin, workplace background, etc. get together and perform their own different lives.

Fan Shengmei, a kind and vain older girl, was born in poverty and grew up in a poor family that preferred sons to daughters. Her parents' injustice rankled her, but she dared not say a word no to her parents' unreasonable demands. After joining the work, I was repeatedly dragged down by my disappointing brother, and almost all the money I earned was used to fill the bottomless pit at home. She is loyal and helpful, and she loves to punch her face and be fat. No matter how embarrassed she is, she will not show the slightest trace in front of others.

My parents dote on my brother seriously, but they just take it from her. For her, to get the attention of her parents is to give, either for her parents or for her brother and sister-in-law. This is a typical "foolish filial piety". There are many such examples in life.

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In 28, Dr. Peking University expelled her mother-in-law. There is a lot of noise on the internet. In the end, the truth came out: the house of Dr. Meng Ling of Peking University and his wife Li Xiaoyan was occupied by her parents-in-law. And was kicked out of the house by his parents-in-law. Li Xiaoyan promised her mother to buy a suite for her younger brother in Beijing, but her mother insisted on her daughter buying a three-bedroom apartment, and even threatened to sever the relationship.

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In March 216, Zhao Yuling's daughter returned to China to visit her parents after studying and working in the United States for five years. While working in the United States, Zhao helped her parents build a two-story building in their hometown. Zhao Yuling asked her daughter to take out $1,, but her daughter said that she couldn't take out that much now, so she would give $1, first and wait until the United States to give the rest. In a rage, Zhao Yuling killed her daughter and son-in-law with an axe while they were sleeping. After turning himself in, he told the police: What's the use of raising a daughter? Isn't it someone else's family who gets married?

Why do these overcharged children cater to their parents' demands again and again?

the answer is: this is the only effective way for them to get close to their parents, and only in this way can they get their parents' approval and love.

These children are neglected by their parents in childhood. When they grow up or even get married, they often sacrifice the interests of their spouses and their children, but they are obedient to their parents, while their parents give their money to their doting children. Although these people are dissatisfied with their parents, they continue to make selfless contributions: I am more filial than them, and my parents will care more about me.

Sometimes, some old people lose patience or confidence in their spoiled children, so they turn their hopes to that neglected child.

More often than not, people who are ignorant of filial piety don't get love, but spoiled children are still loved.

So, a foolish filial piety should first accept the fact that his parents don't love him and let go of his desire for his parents. Once this painful fact is accepted, the foolish filial piety will stop.