The leftover women asked for a bride price before getting married, but they were humiliated by the prospective mother-in-law: "Who will spend money on the leftover women?" What is the ending?

Some people say that everything in this world has two sides, and it is difficult to define it by good or bad. As the saying goes, "A blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise", which is also the truth.

Take the bride price as an example. Some people think that the bride price is a good thing, which can test whether a woman is important in the heart of the man's family and show the standards of both families.

But some people think that the bride price is not a good thing. On the contrary, it is one of the chief culprits that hinder couples from getting married. Many couples have reached the point of getting married, but they will break up because the bride price has not been negotiated, and some even turn against each other.

Indeed, in recent years, we have seen many couples who can't get married because of the bride price, which also makes many people hate the bride price. In fact, we don't have to deny the bride price blindly. After all, it has been passed down for thousands of years and has a certain reason for existence.

In Ayan's view, the bride price is acceptable, but it must be moderate. Don't blackmail the lion. The bride price was supposed to celebrate the wedding of the couple. Don't turn it into a tool to collect money or compare with each other. This is also very unfavorable to marriage and the relationship between husband and wife.

I saw a very interesting question on the Internet before: Should older leftover women get a bride price?

The following answers are varied. According to Ayan's statistics, most men think that bride price should not be given, but most women think that bride price should be given.

If you choose not to give the bride price, the answer is clear: you are already a leftover woman, and you must be very old. It's good to get married. Why are they greedy for bride price?

Women, on the other hand, believe that no matter how old a woman is, as long as she has never been married, the bride price is a necessary procedure, and it can also be seen that the man attaches importance to himself.

In fact, A Yan thinks it depends on whether the older leftover women want to ask for a bride price. If the man has a good family environment and likes you enough, there is no harm in asking for a bride price at this time. However, if the man's family is average and their feelings are not too deep, asking for a bride price is likely to cause unnecessary trouble.

I wrote this article because the reader Huang Jing contributed. She was very excited when she told her story. She doesn't understand that she is just a little older and will be looked down upon when she gets married.

Let's look at the story that happened to her.

Huang Jing is 33 years old and unmarried. Not long ago, I met Wang Hao through a blind date. I felt that the other person was nice and didn't hate getting along. I ended my single life.

33 years old, this age is an embarrassing stage for women. What's more, Huang Jing is not married, and she is a real older woman in the local county. In recent years, Huang Jing was stimulated by rumors, and her parents and friends around her often urged and forced her to get married quickly, which made her feel great pressure.

To tell the truth, at this age, she no longer believes in love, and even if she does, she doesn't believe it will happen to her. Age no longer allows her to continue to be willful, she just wants to find a suitable person to marry.

At this time, Wang Hao was introduced by acquaintances. Wang Hao has a stable job and is honest. Huang Jing has met him several times and thinks he doesn't hate or like to get along with him, but the other person is really a suitable man for marriage.

Wang Hao is one year older than Huang Jing. Because of introversion, I have been left out in the cold for years. He also wants to get married. He happened to meet Huang Jing, and he thought the other person was nice.

The two people hit it off like this, and after getting along a few times, they decided to be together.

They are all adults, and there are not so many romantic plots. After talking for more than three months, Huang Jing felt that Wang Haoting was honest and responsible. I didn't expect to be moved by her, so it would be nice to live a quiet life.

The two put the matter of marriage on the agenda, and both families met and talked about the details of marriage.

Everything was going well, but the two families had differences when talking about the bride price.

According to local standards, the wedding bride price is generally 60,000 yuan. Huang Jing knew that Wang Hao's family was average, and he didn't think much about the bride price, so he proposed a bride price of 30,000, which was also considerate of Wang.

But Wang Gugu doesn't think so. According to Wang Hao's mother, she never thought about the bride price. Wang Hao's mother said directly to Huang Jing, "We both know the situation. It's not easy to get married at such an age. Since we are a family, we can't talk about the bride price. You don't want this thirty thousand dollars. "

The Huang Jing family immediately hacked. In the local area, if you don't accept the bride price, you will be laughed at by people around you. This shows that your daughter is not valued and your family is incapable. Therefore, the bride price is actually something that must be given locally, and the number can be studied.

Huang Jing couldn't help it, and said, "My family doesn't want much. Most people want 60 thousand, and I only want 30 thousand You don't give it. Do you think it is food? Still bargaining. "

I didn't expect the prospective mother-in-law to be anxious when she heard this sentence. She sarcastically said, "If you say you want to buy food, I will say it according to the market situation of the vegetable market. There should also be varieties in the dishes, high quality, ordinary and even rotten. You are 35 years old this year. According to your conditions, it is estimated that it is leftovers from the vegetable market. Who will spend money on leftovers? "

Words so ugly, Huang Jing immediately fire, quarreled with Wang Hao's mother on the spot, this marriage can't be done.