Why is persuasion a sexual harassment?

Dealing with sexual harassment in public places

1. Put a pin ornament in your carry-on bag. If you encounter hooligans harassing you in the back. Quietly

take out the pin, straighten the needle, and then, haha, I don't need to teach you.

2. Please remember that stiletto sandals not only make you look tall and straight, but also have the function of self-defense. Think about the screams made by a rogue when his pointed heel steps on his foot ... Then turn around and look at him innocently and say gracefully, I'm sorry!

3. It is recommended to quickly reverse and use your knees to push it! Remember to call the people around you for help at the same time, so as not to be sued by other wicked people first.

4. Grab him and hit him.

No matter how the status of women has been improved in today's society, even how high it is. When the opponent they meet is a man, and the other person happens to have bad thoughts, there is one thing that they sometimes have to admit-we are far behind men in physical fitness. In order to avoid unnecessary dangers, it is necessary for us women to learn some self-defense skills (even if it is necessary to know them) in case of unexpected use.

Here are some skills that are feasible and easy to learn by yourself:

1. Punching the abdomen: When the neck is strangled by a gangster, punch the gangster in the abdomen with your fist or elbow quickly to make him let go.

2. Stamping method: slam the front of the gangster's tibia with the heel or stamp the gangster's foot hard (female high heels are especially wonderful, with a calculated weight of 5 kilograms, and the strength can reach 3/4 per square inch when the tapered heel is stamped hard).

3. Finger twisting method: When a gangster strangles or hugs himself, quickly pinch his little finger, and forcibly pull it outward, causing severe pain or breaking his finger.

4. Throat poking method: Put your fingers together and straighten them, and poke the gangster's throat with your fingertips or palm.

5. Knee-hitting method: When approaching the gangster, lift your knees and slam them under the crotch or crotch and abdomen.

6. Poke the eyes: use two fingers to form, and poke the gangster's eyes hard.

7. oral biting method: especially when a woman is caught by a gangster, she can bite the gangster's tongue, nose, lips, ears and fingers with her mouth when she has to.

8. Head-butting method: When approaching the gangster, you can hit the gangster's chest, abdomen and other vital parts with your head.

9. Instrument method: Use personal equipment to prevent wolves

(1) Whistle, because most gangsters are afraid of being found, blow the whistle to attract the attention of people around them, so that gangsters can retreat when they are in trouble.

(2) Carry sharp objects or wolf-proof rings with you. Usually, carry sharp objects or wolf-proof rings in your handbag. When fighting with gangsters, leave some holes for it. It is recommended to use a wolf-proof ring, about 2 yuan each, which is not easy to get rid of and easy to use, and can be used in conjunction with the above points 1, 4 and 6.

(3) The wolf-proof flashlight is usually put in a handbag and can be used as a flashlight in the dark. When fighting with gangsters, I am afraid that if you face a tough gangster, you can easily corona it by touching it without any skill. About 2 yuan, not easy to get.

Ten places where perverts are most likely to appear

According to the author's investigation and interview results, the following list of "dangerous places" can be listed according to the risk of sexual harassment:

▲ Relatively closed workplace

Ms. Y, who works in a certain unit, is often sexually harassed by the leader X, who often blocks Y in the office for cuddling and kissing. After being harassed for one year, Y decided to resist, and she prepared a tape recorder. Holding the "hard evidence", Y found the leader of the superior unit to report X's sexual harassment.

a large part of sexual harassment in the workplace comes from the boss. They either pat you on the shoulder pretending to care or appreciate, or pat you playfully indoors or in the corridor, or cling to your hand (it hurts so much that you want to smoke but can't), or look at you with bedroom eyes.

▲ A highly mobile public occasion

Miss Zhang, a nurse, said with disgust in an interview with a newspaper reporter that I have to change buses, buses and subways twice a day to get to and from work, and I have encountered or seen disgusting sexual harassment many times.

The "sexual molester" always jostles around in front of you like being forced to do nothing. In fact, he has a hidden obscene psychology. In a survey conducted by a newspaper, 43% people said that they had been violated by "sexual harassment" in electric cars, subways and downtown areas, especially beautiful women.

A female college student complained that when she was swimming with her classmates, she often met some irresponsible people. Those who are restrained just stare at you with strange eyes, while those who are presumptuous often swim around you like no one's watching, and wherever you go, he will go. It seems unintentional, but it is intentional, because they often touch you underwater. Others are even more blatantly teasing with words.

▲ Banquets or dances for clients

Bai, who works in a trade do miss, said that she often accompanied clients to the hotel to drink and sing. When those guests dance with you, their bodies are very close to you, and they can hear each other's breathing, but you have to accompany a smiling face. Who can afford to miss the business? This kind of "sexual harassment" from customers accounts for about 15% of sexual harassment.

With the help of their business, some customer representatives have no fear, and at the same time, they are pinching and touching, taking advantage of the hostess. What's more, with the strength of wine, he spoke foul words, cuddled and pestered.

▲ Some service and entertainment places

Young female service personnel in some service places often encounter sexual harassment even though they are engaged in serious business. Miss Zhang, who works in the guest department of a hotel in Hang Cheng, often receives guests in the middle of the night. In the hotel, the guests either make rude demands or use obscene words. What's more, once a guest from the northeast asked her to enter the service in the name of pouring boiling water, but suddenly she hugged her from behind and twisted down to make all kinds of obscene movements. After Miss Zhang broke free in every way, she did not dare to say anything, because there was no provision in the hotel on how to punish sexual molesters under such circumstances.

▲ The campus is also the "hardest hit"

Because of the concentration and simplicity of girls on campus, sexual harassment cases have been heard from time to time. Of course, universities, even middle schools and even primary schools are hard to avoid completely. It was reported that at the beginning of March this year, a 13-year-old girl named Xiaoli (pseudonym) reported to the Public Security Bureau that at 9: p.m. on September 27th, 28, she was found by the teacher when she was talking to a girl in the same dormitory. After the teacher asked them to write a letter of determination not to violate discipline any more, she led Xiaoli to the back of the girl's dormitory. First, she advised her to study hard, then she stared at her for a long time. Suddenly she asked Xiaoli if she had menstruated. Xiaoli was extremely panicked at that time, and ran back to the dormitory after breaking free. From then on, she was afraid when she saw the teacher, and she was in a trance until she was forced to drop out of school.

In , Tianjin, Nanjing and other places, in order to create a good growth environment for female middle school students who have just entered adolescence, some girls' schools have been restored or established one after another, and they are in great demand. While causing controversy, this phenomenon has also sounded the alarm for the society.

▲ being told about the family by strangers

Recently, Li Mou, a young woman from a certain unit, suddenly received extremely obscene sexual harassment in the middle of the night, and Li immediately hung up. But it didn't take long to call in, and there was nasty talk. For several days, Li was harassed in the middle of the night. As a last resort, Li came to the command center of Yunyan District Public Security Bureau to report the case. The police quickly arrested two suspects through scientific criminal investigation.

Wang, a family nanny in a certain district, was once seen by a man passing by while taking a bath. After he easily got the owner, the man often called the nanny and said that if he put it down or didn't pick it up, he would incite the owner to dismiss her. Under Wang's permission, the man became more and more serious, often hitting for an hour or even longer, and doing obscene things in the park. Later, after being arrested, the man admitted that he was addicted to harassment and it was as difficult as taking drugs to quit.

▲ Unfamiliar men and women are in the same room

A psychological clinic once received a girl crying. The girl at the other end cried and told the staff that her parents hired a tutor for her and wanted her to get into high school as she wished, but the male teacher often touched the sensitive parts of her body intentionally or unintentionally, and sometimes deliberately grabbed her hand and pressed her chest hard, which made her feel uncertain about her study. She didn't want to tell her parents about it, but she didn't know what to do.

Yang, a migrant girl from Sichuan, works in a restaurant. Because of the limited accommodation conditions, she and several male colleagues live in a room simply separated by several bed boards, and all kinds of voices in daily life can be heard clearly, so there is no privacy at all. What bothers her even more is that several male colleagues often deliberately tell dirty jokes and open meat jokes in front of her, and take the opportunity to pinch and cuddle with her. Some even deliberately put on their shirts when they are alone, and squeeze her into the corner to force her to see her.

▲ Temporary accommodation and rest place

When the long-distance sleeper car passed a county, it was already dark. Ms. Wei, who seems to be sleeping but not sleeping, suddenly felt a special heat wave coming vaguely after her right thigh. When Ms. Wei opened her eyes, she was shocked: Mr. 2 in the seat next to her was lying on her side, and the part below the navel was placed next to her body "carelessly", while his right hand was hung "just right" between him and her thigh. Ms. Wei turned over and turned to lie flat on her side. Two hours later, her plump figure was extremely uncomfortable, so she had to relax a little. It was late at night when the bus arrived in Jiangyou, and Ms. Wei, who was tired, had already slept soundly. Suddenly, Ms. Wei was woken up by the "bug" again: Mr. Wang was secretly stroking Ms. Wei' s under the cover of that dirty and smelly quilt.

During a trip, Miss Wang, who just graduated from college, shared a tent with others and prepared to take a break after the bonfire party. Later, she fell asleep with her clothes on. I don't know how long it took, but suddenly I found that my roommate had put his arm around her shoulder and groped her thigh with one hand. She was ashamed and angry, and went back with humiliation.

▲ sex shops

"sex health products shops" or "adult products shops" are all over the streets of big cities, and many shops attract customers with posters and appliances with strong meanings. Many people and experts point out that soliciting business so unscrupulously is also a kind of "sexual harassment" for others.

▲ The development of IT, which boasts of being open and boasting of the Internet

, has provided a new "stage" for sexual molesters. In mid-July this year, Ms. Yang registered a house rental information online through the computer and left it. In the next two days, there were really many renters calling. But then the content changed, and the caller actually talked about "yellow language" and said that he was calling after reading the content on the Internet. Ms. Yang