What can I say to a girl to make her like you?

What can I say to a girl to make her like you? ?

First, dare to express yourself.

Dare to express yourself, not to say at the beginning: "I like you very much, you are the only goddess in my life." I believe that no woman can accept such a naked confession, just like saying "I've been waiting for you" in bed after taking a shower, unless this woman has a crush on you.

To truly express yourself is to dare to be yourself. Whether in behavior or language, you can show your self-confidence, humor, self-restraint, temperament, life, self-motivation and so on. If what you show happens to be what women like, then "attraction" will quietly arise.

Nowadays, society always conveys the idea of being good to women to people. This idea makes many boys flatter women when chasing girls, and it doesn't matter if they even become "licking dogs". They always suppress their own personality and dare not express their true personality. In fact, this kind of chat is exactly what women hate most.

Second, control your sense of need.

Everyone has a sense of need, which is also the innate demand of people.

Hungry people want to eat, thirsty people want to drink, sleepy people want to sleep, and they will unconsciously react when they see the beautiful girl's body. As long as you think about one thing, you will have a sense of need. But in greedy human nature, the more you show a strong sense of need for each other, the more they will keep their distance from you.

So the more you want a girl, the more you need to control your sense of need. When chatting to find a topic, don't always think about what the other person likes, but find the * * * connection point between two people and establish contact through the * * * connection point, which is the starting point of mutual affection.

There is a psychological effect of "human nature is base". The less a person can get, the more he wants. When chatting, if you can rationally control your sense of need, you will push and pull to create emotional fluctuations, and the more you will be attracted to girls.

Third, have a well-deserved mentality.

High emotional intelligence is not born, but is honed day after day. It's not flattery, but being able to behave yourself at all times, dare to stick to what you think is right, and get along with people very happily and naturally.

When chatting with girls, sometimes it is inevitable to accidentally say something that makes the other person disgusted, and the girl's feedback is not good. Don't make girls feel that they have done something wrong as soon as they give a bad review, and apologize to them immediately. "I was wrong, don't ignore me, okay?" This is an act that depresses men.

The correct way is:

Even if you say something unpleasant, you should adjust your practice in time according to the feedback from the other party and start a new topic. If nothing happened and violated the girl's personality, I really need to apologize: "I'm sorry, I didn't know it was your disgusting behavior."

Fourth, learn to talk emotionally.

Women are emotional animals, emotional animals, emotional animals!

They don't like to listen to men preaching, talking about politics and discussing games. They like gossip and emotional chat between girlfriends. Only when your emotions are satisfied will you feel that this man understands her and will be more willing to chat with this man.

Therefore, it is particularly important to stimulate girls' emotions in chatting. You can stimulate girls' emotions by vividly describing things, fully expressing your feelings and comments, and linking the topic with girls, sometimes pulling them closer, sometimes pushing them away, and so on.

What is "attraction"?

Girls' reactions to you and your emotions.