Will you attend your ex’s wedding?

Definitely not. I really don’t understand why you keep meddling in other people’s lives after breaking up.

First of all, after breaking up, you are a stranger and have nothing to do with you. Whether your ex is doing well or not is his own business and you don’t need to worry about it.

And regardless of whether you were the one who initiated the breakup or was the one who broke up with you, attending your ex’s wedding is an act of serious self-degradation. If you are the one being broken up with, don't you think it's enough for others to hurt you? If someone slaps you on the left cheek, you have to stretch out the right cheek to slap someone else. Seeing your ex who dumped you and being happy with someone else, and then having a heart attack because of your anger, why bother?

If you are the one who broke up, you should not go. Do you want to express your guilt for dumping someone else? Please, others have already found the one they love and are so happy, okay? I don’t have time to accept your guilt. Or maybe he regrets breaking up and wants to disrupt the situation. Oh my god, then he will slap himself in the face, as cheap as he wants. I guess what's waiting for you is the hotel security guard chasing you away.

So if you are single, no matter whether you broke up with someone or was broken up with, you will feel uncomfortable when you see your ex get married. And if you already have a significant other at this time, you absolutely cannot go. In everything, you must learn to put yourself in someone else's shoes. How will attending your ex's wedding make your current wife think? If your current boss treated you like this, would you feel comfortable?

Although people are cheap, they always feel that what they can’t get is the best. But you must know that the reason why you broke up with your ex at that time was because of irreconcilable conflicts. It's just that time has made you forget these. If it is no longer yours, stop clinging to it and cherish what is in front of you is the rational approach~

From Mr. Natsuko, a down-to-earth intellectual. WeChat public account: Xia Zi English class