My son is still renting a house. Will my daughter be laughed at for buying a house?

Whether to look forward to a life-changing love or choose the marriage you want after you have the strength, everyone has their own ideas. Different mentality, destined to harvest different life.

Every girl longs for the warmth of her family and the care of her lover, and many girls really enjoy the beauty of love and affection. But it seems that there are not many girls who can really dominate life.

Time has changed people's hearts and values have changed their status. If you want to be sought after in heterosexual relationships and valued in interpersonal communication for a long time, then you must have certain capital.

One day you will find that the real sense of security actually comes from your independence and progress. When you are good enough and work hard enough, you have the right to choose life and love.

0 1. Perhaps because she suffered too much when she was a child, one of Cui Ling's great wishes is to stay away from her hometown and rely on herself. However, after a small success, she decided to transfer back to her hometown. After all, she is lonely outside.

Mother has been more protective of her brother since she was a child, so Cui Ling has long been used to it. "Give her brother 1500 yuan living expenses every month", which is the minimum requirement of her mother. A few years later, her family began to arrange blind dates for her.

In fact, Cui Ling has been longing for love, and she really took a fancy to two boys on blind date, but her mother's request of "30,000 to 60,000 bride price" "scared away" several high-quality boys. Unconsciously, Cui Ling is 29 years old.

Seeing that she is about to become the "leftover woman" in everyone's mouth, Cui Ling is more and more anxious. She is going to decide the important events in her life. But the mother said, "You can find someone yourself, provided that you help your brother buy a car."

02. In order to be happy, Cui Ling took out 1.2 million yuan to help her brother buy a car. But not long after I found my boyfriend, my mother put forward new requirements: "You have a high income, you must pay for the renovation of the house, and your brother is going to talk about relatives."

Such a tough tone forced Cui Ling to accept it, and finally she took out 30,000 yuan. But even so, my mother said, "I won't marry you without a bride price of 300 thousand."

What makes Cui Ling even more headache is that his brother immediately changed a car with more than 300,000 yuan after looking for an object, so the family still owes some debts. After that, my mother often called her and asked her to pay for the family.

Soon after, Cui Ling and her boyfriend got the certificate. She said to her mother, "I am the master of my own marriage. We agreed not to give a bride price or marry him. " This time, the strength made my mother finally choose to compromise.

Because Cui Ling has been subsidizing her family, everyone is much more polite to her. But her mother often puts pressure on her: "you have the ability, you can't just care about yourself." Your brother is married, you must help him. "

A few months later, Cui Ling finished her marriage and prepared to buy a house with her husband. However, the mother said, "Daughter, your brother is still renting a house. As a sister, are you not afraid of being laughed at when you buy a house now? "

In the face of such a wonderful problem, Cui Ling is very calm: "No, it is reasonable for me to buy what I like with my own money." At this time, she realized that enough strength could make her more confident.

In later life, Cui Ling's career was promoted again. While helping her family properly, she also began to live for herself.

It's good to help your family, but many times we have to learn to do what we can and take care of ourselves. Too many burdens and burdens will make your life bleak. As parents, it will certainly bring many negative effects to treat children equally and prefer one.

Take care of yourself and don't be too tired. There are caring people in everyone's heart, and soft-hearted people always like to release their friendliness and generosity. But we should also learn to cherish ourselves and not to overdraw ourselves when helping others.

We should attach importance to parents' opinions and opinions, but in love and marriage, we have the final say. To identify a person and choose a relationship, then we should follow our inner choices and not be misled by the wrong voice.

A correct view of marriage and values is the premise of harvesting a beautiful love and life. No matter what your status is, whether emotionally or in life, everyone should maintain a high quality and carry out correct ideas. Selfishness is too heavy, and you must pay the price.

Gentleness and kindness will win us good interpersonal relationships, but if we have no principles and don't know how to distinguish right from wrong, we will sometimes be too tired.

On the premise of maintaining enthusiasm and integrity, we should also learn to say "no" to the injustice in life. Refusing in time is sometimes a kind of self-protection.