How should young people communicate with the elderly?

Young people and old people grew up in two different backgrounds, so there is a natural gap in values, thinking habits and living habits. However, this society is made up of the old and the young, and young people inevitably have to deal with the old. So, how should they communicate with the elderly?

In fact, it's very simple, as long as we follow one principle: think from each other's standpoint, so that we can communicate well.

Give two common examples in life to illustrate:

1. Young people and old people go out to eat.

If young people think from the perspective of the elderly: Oh, I have bad teeth and want to eat soft and rotten things; The stomach is not good, it should be easy to digest; Blood lipids and blood pressure are high, so be sure to eat oil and salt lightly; Moreover, the price should be more affordable ..... If all these factors are taken into account, it will be very simple for them to go out to eat, and there will be no situation where young people want to eat that, and old people want to eat that, and finally both sides are dissatisfied.

2. Young people and old people's requirements for children's wear.

Young parents will think that their children should be dressed appropriately and fashionably, so as to cultivate their children's aesthetic ability and clothing collocation level from an early age. Moreover, old people will think that children grow up so fast, look the same every year, spend so much money and buy so many clothes that they can't wear them in just one year, which is a waste.

If young people think from the perspective of the elderly, they can communicate with the elderly like this: 1. Children living in cities need to dress appropriately, which can cultivate their aesthetic ability and help them in the future. When a child is in kindergarten or elementary school, others will look at him with special respect and give him more help when they see that the child is dressed appropriately and behaves politely. We can choose some clothes with good quality and high cost performance for our children, so we don't have to buy such expensive clothes. 4. If children can't wear them in the future, they can donate them to children in poor areas without wasting. This way of communication will be well accepted by most old people.

Of course, in life, young people want to communicate with the elderly in all aspects. The above are just two examples to illustrate that no matter how different the values and thinking habits of young people and old people are, as long as they think from each other's standpoint, respect each other's ideas, and then communicate patiently, they can have a good communication result.