If people don’t cross by themselves, God can’t help them.

Author: Insight Autumn

Maturity is to be your own ferryman.

As people grow older, they understand more and more that life is a lonely journey.

We have all been at rock bottom, longing for someone to come and cheer us up.

We have all been waiting for someone to say "I am here" when we were sad and lost.

But the reality is that only you can understand your own suffering, and you can only bear your own tiredness.

As the old saying goes: mountains will fall if you rely on them, but people will run if you rely on them.

The only person in this world who can really help you heal and tide you over is yourself.

I saw a post on Douban a while ago: "When did you realize that people are cold-hearted?"

There was a reply in the comment that received tens of thousands of likes:

"Obviously I feel so miserable that I can't hold it any longer, but the people around me look on with cold eyes and blame you for making a fuss out of a molehill."

Yes, it is often difficult for people to see clearly the state of the world when things are going smoothly. The truth about human relationships.

At the most difficult time, we realize that there is no one behind us.

People who once thought they could talk about anything only regard your sadness as a joke.

The person you once thought you could rely on for the rest of your life will only leave a back figure when you need him most.

A relationship that once felt extremely strong begins to become fragile once something goes wrong.

The more I have experienced in these years, the more I understand this sentence:

"Asking for others is like swallowing a three-foot sword, and relying on others is like reaching the ninth heaven."

Adulthood In this human world, everyone has their own hardships and hardships to face.

There are some things that no one is willing to help with; there are some things that no one else can help with.

Put your hopes on others, and as great as your expectations are, you will be disappointed.

I read a very heart-wrenching line: "I want a friend to help me, wine for wine, tea for tea."

In this world, no one is a safe haven forever. .

There are many people who are willing to hold an umbrella for you on a light rainy day, but when a heavy rain comes, no one can only take care of themselves.

I read a very touching saying:

Whether it’s friends or family, they can help you on a journey, but they can’t help you in your life.

Asking others for their sense of security is like duckweed in the wind, which scatters as soon as it blows.

After all, you have to go through the difficulties in life alone; the sense of security you want has to be earned bit by bit by yourself.

If you fall and there is no one to help you, just stand up, dust yourself off, and keep walking;

If you are too tired and no one is there to help you, just take a rest and The burden changes from the left shoulder to the right shoulder;

When you are sad and no one cares about you, comfort yourself: get through it, tomorrow will be a new day.

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Reality is cruel and people’s hearts are fickle. If you are not brave, no one can be strong for you.

Instead of begging others to give you an umbrella in the rain, it is better to live under your own roof.

Only when you solve things by yourself can you grow; only when you digest hardships by yourself can you have dignity.

The more skills you have, the less you have to say to ask for help.

Relying on oneself in everything is a person’s greatest confidence.

I have been re-reading Ni Ping’s "Grandma's Quotations" these days, and I feel deeply about her words:

"If you don't fall, you can get through anything. If you fall, no one can." I can’t help you.”

The biggest opponent in life is not those who add insult to injury, but yourself who is used to complaining and relying on you.

Similarly, the most noble person in life is not those who are willing to give you a hand, but yourself who never gives up.

Lu Yao had a bad fate in his life. He was born in poverty when he was young and almost dropped out of school.

As an adult, he encountered a series of setbacks such as career difficulties, rejection of his manuscripts, and twists and turns in his marriage.

But no matter how God teases him, he can always try his best to rescue himself.

Just like what he wrote in "The Ordinary World":

"You can't wait for others to arrange your life, you have to fight for it yourself, so that you will live in this world in vain. One scene. ”

Life is like this, you have to go through sorrow and joy, and no one can help you.

You have to wipe your tears by yourself, swallow the pain by yourself, carry the pain by yourself, and endure the grievances by yourself.

All disasters in life require you to endure them step by step and endure them bit by bit.

It is said in "Three Idiots": "Learn to fulfill yourself, and life will fulfill you."

Life is never easy, but God never makes it easy. Not worth any effort.

Maybe the wind and rain in front of us are a bit heavy and the road is full of mud.

If you carry on with all the bitterness and fatigue, the sky will be clear.

No one can always have smooth sailing throughout his life.

In this world, no one can be relied on, only yourself.

Others cannot take the pain you deserve, and you have to bear it yourself.

If people don’t save themselves, neither will God.

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