The more people care about something, the easier it is to lose something?

This proposition is relative. It can be said that yes, the more you care about something, the easier it is to lose it; it can also be said that no, the more you care about something, the less likely it is to lose it. This is a matter of degree, and you have to grasp this degree by yourself! This is what caring is like. We all have people and things we care about in life. Sometimes we find that we care too much and lose easily. Take love as an example. When two people are together, one party will always care about the other very much, but when they care too much, the other party will feel pressured. You will feel trapped, and slowly the two of you will end up breaking up. This principle is just like a saying here: Love is like sand in your hand. The tighter you hold it, the faster it loses. It is necessary for two people to care about each other, but if you care too much, it will become sour. A series of problems will arise, that is, the more you care, the easier it is to lose. Therefore, we must learn and grasp the "degree" of caring. If you care about a person, you should give him the corresponding free time and space instead of blindly restraining him. Caring too much will only make him tired and yourself tired. If your efforts are not proportional to the rewards, you will feel tired. Slowly, a series of conflicts will break out between the two people, and eventually they may end up breaking up. This love will fail because you care too much.

This is what caring is like. Sometimes caring too much about someone will make that person feel that your care is too cheap. Your care is too easy for him to get, and he doesn't know how to cherish it. We often encounter such problems in life, especially when you are chasing someone you like. You care about him so much and sacrifice for him, but he treats you as an ordinary friend or a spare tire. Because your love is too easy to get. What is easy to get is worthless and he will not cherish it. There are too many examples of this in love, and they have even made headlines. To care like this is not infatuation, but stupidity! The most basic thing for two people to be together should be mutual dedication and care, rather than one person's unilateral dedication and care. If you care about someone, you must know how to measure it, and don't let him think that your care is too cheap. Only when it is hard to get will you cherish it. People are like this, they don't cherish what they get and have, but only what they don't get will feel valuable and cherished. This is human nature. It is inevitable for everyone, just like that sentence, those who cannot get it are always in turmoil, and those who are favored are always confident. Maybe it’s the same reason that the more you care, the easier it is to lose!

The more you care, the easier it is to lose? If you care about each other, it won't happen. If the person you are with cares about you as much as you do, you will cherish each other. This kind of love will only get better and better. Of course, this is a very ideal love. There are very few in reality, especially in today's impetuous society. The so-called love has become a new era of fast food. Care seems to have become a tool to achieve goals and obtain benefits. For example, someone who suddenly cares about you must be approaching you with a purpose. When he becomes the target, he no longer cares about you so much. The love in "My Deskmate" is very well controlled, not letting him get too much at once and giving him a limited amount of time. Only in this way will he find it rare and cherish it. This is a great way to control what you care about.

I remember that when I was in high school, our teacher told me about Murphy’s Law, which roughly means: the more you think about something not happening, the easier it is to happen, and the more you want it to happen. It happened, but it didn’t happen again! This is Murphy's Law. The more you care, the easier it is to lose. This law also works. Because you care about this thing or person, you don't want to lose him. The less you want to lose, the easier it is to lose. This is Murphy's Law at work. Therefore, when we care about some people and things, we must not only grasp the degree of care, but also pay attention to the role of Murphy's Law. Take advantage of this law. The more you care, the easier it is to lose? This is not absolute, because this requires your own operation and control.