How does it feel when a father and son turn against each other?

Behind the antagonism is the helpless and sad tears of the parents. Let me ask, who is willing to turn against his own child who was raised by himself? Unless the children have been riddled with wounds from the pain they have spent their whole lives doing.

My cousin, I have been a little afraid of him since I was a child, because he feels like the kind of bad boy my mother said to me. He has been very strong since he was a child, and he often fights. My mother told me that he When I was a child, I often lied and skipped classes. We can’t imitate him in the future, do you hear me? So I have had very little contact with him. Gradually, when he grew up, he began his dark path. He first worked in a gas plant. At that time, the dormitories were the kind of Datongbu where 10 people lived. He brought his girlfriend to live with him, making His roommates all reported him, and when he found out about it, he broke his arm. Later, he stole his motorcycle with some social youths and was caught by them. Unfortunately, my uncle, who was not well off, had to compensate him. He paid 8,000 yuan, and then he disappeared for two years. He had no contact with his family in the past two years. Later, many people at home often came to ask for debts, claiming that he owed them. Only then did my uncle know that he was working outside. Something. They ate, drank, whored and gambled, and even borrowed loan sharks for investment. In the end, all the money was lost, and the loan sharks kept chasing him.

My uncle was so angry that he wanted to sever the father-son relationship with him and never let him step into the house. He said that I have been so honest in my life and haven't done anything bad, so why did I end up giving birth to such a beast? They never contacted me again until they found out that my cousin came home last year, and that time he came home to see his uncle for the last time.