Others say that you are weak in some way and have a bad brain. How can you answer with humorous words?

You can say that I am kind and kind-hearted.

The word "humor" first appeared in Qu Yuan's Nine Chapters of Huai Sha, which is full of warmth and humor. But the definition here is silence, and now "humor" refers to the transliteration of English "humor" Generally, a person's humorous ability is directly proportional to his emotional intelligence.

Humor can be divided into broad sense and narrow sense. In western usage, it often includes vulgar jokes ... In a narrow sense, humor is different from repression, satire and ridicule. These three or four styles all contain jokes. But there are different types of laughter, such as wry smile, guffaw, faint smile and fake smile, and the attitude of smiling again is also different. Some are sour and sweet, some are gentle, some are contemptuous, some are sympathetic, and some are based on the whole outlook on life and have thoughts.

The best humor naturally means "the brilliance of the soul and the richness of wisdom" ... among various styles, humor is the most emotional. "(Lin Yutang-On Reading, On Humor, published by Contemporary World Press) is a kind of wisdom that can stimulate a certain emotion in human psychology, and it is a kind of processing or destruction of reality in some form after logic is properly adjusted. Humor or funny can be promoted to the category of philosophical research, and it is not an exaggeration to say that humor is a kind of philosophy.

Humor often brings joy to people, and its main characteristics are wit, self-mockery, ridicule and humor. Indeed, humor helps to eliminate hostility, ease friction and prevent contradictions from escalating. Others believe that humor can also stimulate morale and improve production efficiency. A company in Colorado, USA, confirmed through investigation that the output of middle-level supervisors who participated in humor training increased by 15% within 9 months, while sick leave was reduced by half.

Tests have proved that there are differences between boring people and people with a sense of humor in the following aspects, and these differences are precisely the psychological adjustment function and function of a sense of humor. IQ has been confirmed by many psychological tests. People with a high sense of humor tend to get high IQ test scores, while those without a sense of humor get average test scores, and some even obviously lack resilience.

A person with a sense of humor in interpersonal relationships is very popular in daily life. He can shorten the distance of interpersonal communication in a short time and win the goodwill and trust of the other party. People who lack a sense of humor will affect communication to a certain extent, and will also greatly reduce their image in the eyes of others.

People who are good at using humorous skills in their work can always maintain a good attitude. According to statistics, people who have achieved something in their work are not all the most diligent people, but people who are good at understanding others and have a strong sense of humor.

Humor in dealing with difficulties can make people more optimistic and open-minded when facing difficulties. Therefore, people with a sense of humor will relax even in the face of difficulties, and use humor to eliminate the tension and anxiety caused by work.