The wife said that she was in a bad mood, how to answer and how to comfort her.

It is very important for two people to get together, understand each other and care about each other. My wife is in a bad mood after marriage, and she is the most stupid and doesn't know how to comfort her. In fact, women are very simple. Just coax and do something happy.

How should my wife answer when she says she is in a bad mood?

You can ask her why, or take her out shopping. When a woman says that she is in a bad mood, she means that she needs to be coaxed. How does that woman coax? Be honest. When men socialize outside, they sometimes like to hide the truth and tell some lies to deal with their wives. In fact, as long as it doesn't involve work, there is no need to make up excuses such as "in a meeting" and "working overtime" to cheat your wife. Because it often takes ten sentences to cover up a lie, and mistakes are inevitable. How tired you are. Cleverly "henpecked". There is nothing wrong with proper "henpecked" families, which often last for a long time. At the same time, such men often know that their wives have suffered a lot. Therefore, they are willing to be "henpecked" and often refuse some unimportant parties. Instead, I went home from work to help my wife cook, stir-fry and wash dishes. Not only that, such men often don't haggle over every ounce. Don't blame your wife for nagging. Generally speaking, women are talkative only in front of the man they like. Maybe this man had a bad day at work, or just had a conflict with his colleagues, but at this time, his wife is like a tireless bird, chattering in front of you, making your mood even more irritable. But don't blame her too much, you just need to say to her: honey, I'm tired, let me have a rest alone.

Remember the anniversary. Don't celebrate your wife's birthday, festivals and anniversaries with great fanfare, but remember to give her gifts. You don't have to give her a gift, but invite her to have dinner with you. You don't invite her to dinner, but remember to bring her flowers; You don't think it's a waste to send flowers, so buy her some snacks she likes. You don't buy snacks, but remember to call and say hello. At worst, send her a meaningful message. Whether you forgot to send a message or not, wait for her to complain about you. Home is not a rational place. This sentence is a truth that my wife and I understood after quarreling for many years. It is impossible for a husband and wife not to quarrel. But don't dwell on a little thing, you have to make it clear. Some things don't need to be made clear, and it doesn't work if you make it clear. At the same time, don't ask the other person to admit his mistake, even if the truth is on your side. Because there is no winner in the quarrel between husband and wife, there is no need to tell the winner. But turn a blind eye; Not only that, you also need to use your true feelings to maintain a real home.

How to comfort your wife

There are generally two directions to comfort women: 1. Let her know that someone is worse than her. 2. Something happened that made her happier.

Let your wife know that someone is worse off than her. If you can let your wife know that someone around you is worse than her, her mood will naturally get better. So maybe you don't understand. For example, is it hard to be called to the office by the teacher when studying? However, if the latter is scolded by the teacher with you, you will naturally feel better. Even if the other person is worse than you and is scolded more fiercely by the teacher, will you feel glad that you are not the worst one? Similarly, you can comfort your wife in this way. Something happened that made her happier. In fact, this kind of comfort effect is far less than the former, but it can help the wife to temporarily ease the current mood. For example, if she was taught a lesson by her boss, you should take care of her emotions at the first time. You can comfort her and say, this must be very uncomfortable, right? How can he be so overbearing? Then take her to vent. Besides helping her share her troubles, you should also take her to do something happier. You can take her to a big meal. You can take her to do something interesting and exciting, which will deepen your feelings. Because there are secrets between you. On the other hand, if you follow your previous comfort strategy, it is quite bad, even though it is our usual comfort routine for men. But comforting women doesn't work. You should also know that women's thinking is emotional. Men ask a question because they want its solution, while women pay more attention to its sensibility when asking a question. In other words, they don't care whether the problem itself is solved, they only care about how to make themselves happy.

When your wife is in a bad mood, you should first find out the reason why your wife is unhappy. If your wife is angry and you are afraid to ask, you can wait until her mood calms down. If you know the reason, look on the bright side. If your wife is right, you should try your best to say it. If something is wrong with your wife, you can say something nice to comfort her first and then enlighten her slowly! You can learn animal movements and walk around in front of your wife. Even if she is tired of cursing you, you can say wow. It turns out that my wife can swear so freely (she scolded you, you may stop here and be quiet. When she gets better, she will feel ashamed. After all, it's not your fault. If you turn around, you will naturally talk to you first. Then you can say your wife is tired. Let's eat some fruit first. I'm going to cook it for a while, so I can eat it. Wait a minute. You can tell jokes, of course, jokes should be related to you or people you know. You can tell her what she doesn't know, and you can tell her your childhood. If you think some jokes are powerful enough, you can just say them! You can buy something thoughtful (new) when you go home, give her some fresh elements, and let her know that my husband is still a very emotional person and not stupid!

How to comfort a wife in a bad mood?

1 Of course, you have to find out why your wife is unhappy first. If your wife is angry and you are afraid to ask, you can wait until her mood calms down. If you know the reason, at most, if your wife is right, you can talk harder. If something is wrong with your wife, you can say something nice to comfort her first and then enlighten her slowly!

2, you can learn the movements of animals and walk around tirelessly in front of your wife. Even if she is tired of scolding you, you can say wow. It turns out that your wife can be so free and easy when she scolds you. (She scolds you, you may stop here, be quiet. When she gets better, she will feel ashamed. After all, it's not your fault. If you turn around, you will naturally talk to you first. Then you can say that your wife is tired and eat first.

You can tell jokes. Of course, jokes have to be related to you or people you know. You can tell her what she doesn't know. You can tell her about your childhood. If you think some jokes are powerful enough, you can tell her directly!

You can buy something thoughtful (new) when you go home, and give her some fresh elements to let her know that my husband is still a very emotional person and not stupid!

5. Isn't it popular to use computers to make mv now? You can give her a surprise when it's finished! Record all the details of your acquaintance and meeting. You can find some photos that she has forgotten and let her know how considerate you are. You can also ask your mother-in-law interesting stories about your wife when she was a child, so that you can not only care about her now, but also care about her when she was a child, so that you can know your wife more comprehensively!

6. You can keep a diary, but don't let her know. When you find that she is in a bad mood, you can deliberately put the diary in a place where she can see it but think it can be hidden (of course, I don't have to say what is written in the diary)!

7. You can make fun of yourself. You can wear nondescript clothes and play different roles. You can wear skirts, windbreakers and other wife's clothes. Anyway, you have to let go to please your wife at home!

8. You should change yourself. Don't let your wife think that you are still so stuffy and have no sense of humor. When you speak, you can say some popular online words or any TV series, movies and classic quotations!

9, occasionally buy food and cook, take the children to pick up the children, let her worry, give her a vacation!

10, to be filial to both parents, you can ask to see your parents from time to time. You can say humorously, honey, I think I'm old-fashioned. Why don't we go and see that I have a duck in my left hand and a chicken in my right? !

1 1, now life is fast and stressful. If you travel properly, you can go with your children and stay at your parents' home!

If you comfort your wife in a bad mood

1) I love you, miss you, love you and spoil you in my heart! I kiss you, hug you, caress you and protect you in my dream! Acacia day and night! Year after year! Acacia lasts forever! Have a wonderful full moon! The first wind knocking at the door in the morning is my loyal greeting to you; The stars that don't fall at night are my good night wishes to you. You've been running around in my head all day today. Are you tired? Go to bed early.

2) I keep you in my way, and you attract me with your silence; How beautiful everything is, the distance between heart and heart becomes zero; Youth flies in the wind, dreams echo in passion, and I believe in the future, and my heart will remain unchanged!

3) Although I can't keep your footsteps and you can't take my figure away, I can always hear your footsteps wherever I go.

4) The train glides silently on the rails, the snow sleeps in the wilderness with a dream on its pillow, and your face is coming after me quickly; The sun is shining, the fantasy is falling with the Sophora japonica, and your moving lips quietly reveal Fang Fei to me at night like roses!

5) In fact, the sky is blue, and the clouds will eventually disperse; In fact, the sea is not wide, and this shore is connected with the other; In fact, tears are sweet, when your heart has a wish; In fact, I hope you are happy every day.

6) After 30 years, if there is still the word persistence in the world, I hope it belongs to me; After 30 years, if there is still the word moved in the world, I hope it belongs to you.

7) Being with you is the will of love. I'll give you my heart and let you arrange it. It is ready to accept everything, whether sweet or bitter!

8) The train glides silently on the rails, the snow sleeps in the wilderness with a dream on its pillow, and your face is coming after me quickly; The sun is shining, the fantasy is falling with the Sophora japonica, and your moving lips quietly reveal Fang Fei to me at night like roses!

9) The rosy sunshine shines all over the world, and romance lasts forever; Sprinkle happiness on your body, and the fragrance will last forever; Sprinkle warmth in the palm of your hand and care for it forever; Valentine's Day belongs only to you and me, soul mate!

10) I have a dream every day, that is, you will be very happy when you receive a message that I miss love, and all the troubles of the day can be eliminated. You can sleep like a pig, sleep like milk, and wake up in the morning to see a beautiful sunrise. Good night, let the dream begin to enter.