How to be a mature, intelligent and wise woman?

An intellectual woman, like an advertisement, has connotations and opinions. She is spiritual, "smart and brave". She can ignore the erosion of appearance by years, but she will never give in easily. She can be a far cry from the devil's figure and light posture, but she knows how to dress herself exquisitely and tastefully with a wise mind. Personally, I think it is not difficult to be such a woman. If you work hard to recharge your batteries, increase your knowledge and cultivate your charm, you can become an intellectual woman like Yang Lan. The following is my "secret recipe" pieced together from several places: a woman who speaks intellectually is a "hero" among women, and she speaks steadily and appropriately. Details 1: can speak standard English. Detail 2: Ask and answer politely and make good use of honorifics. Detail 3: speaking cadence. The change of intonation is the most common way for intellectual women to express their thoughts. Detail 4: Speak rationally and restrained, sometimes even without mercy. Because language is magical, it is actually a different kind of scenery, which is worth appreciating. An intellectual woman who behaves intellectually can appreciate the intellectual side of her gestures and smiles. Details 1: The cultivation of intellectuality begins with charging. Learn professional courses, read literary classics, recite Chinese classics, and practice piano. In short, the word "learning" comes first. Detail 2: When walking, please stand up straight and steady first, but you can speed up the pace of walking. Detail 3: Eat on time, form a fixed sleep and exercise habit, and take nutrition, health and beauty as the keynote. Detail 4: I like the talk of intellectuals, and sometimes I can talk eloquently, but I never like telling boring jokes in front of people, which embodies the demeanor of intellectuals everywhere. Detail 5: Treat the discount frenzy rationally. Only when it is time to do it. An intellectual and beautiful dress image can make white-collar women young and beautiful. Details 1: Simplicity and fluency are the basic requirements of the overall dress, and the principle of stable color and simple tone should be observed in general. Black, white, gray, brown and other colors are good choices. Beige is the most predestined color of simplicity and intellectual beauty. Detail 2: From the collocation point of view, a white shirt with a delicate black tie, or a suit of the same color with simple style, refreshing color and novel style, or a knee-length skirt with a shirt and a simple vest top can easily convey the intellectual beauty. Detail 3: Stiletto heels can just embellish the elegance and calmness of intellectual women. Detail 4: In the case of matching the same color professional clothes, you can choose beautiful scarves, necklaces and bracelets for embellishment to add femininity to the rigid dress. The makeup should be smart, plain and healthy. Details 1: The overall makeup should be thin and transparent to create delicate skin. Detail 2: Please keep your eyebrows straight. Don't get your eyebrows too close, have a lighter color, and use a brown eyebrow pencil. Detail 3: With eyebrow color, the eyeliner should also be brown. Detail 4: Emphasize the treatment of eyelashes to make you look energetic and confident. Detail 5: Eye shadow and blush should be brown to show mature intellectual beauty. When blushing, sketch your face as three-dimensionally as possible to create a natural and energetic makeup. Detail 6: Natural elegance, rich natural lip color and faint rose red are more suitable for intellectual women. Hair and intellectual hairstyle are another rational dress for intellectual women. Details: 1: regularly enter high-end hair salons to nourish your hair professionally, so as to have excellent hair quality. Detail 2: When buying hair care products, look at the brand first, then the ingredients, and finally the price. Detail 3: dye your hair, but less highlights. Even if it stands out, it is also a very inconspicuous highlight of the same color. Detail 4: Falling in love with short and capable hair does not rule out the long hair of clear soup noodles. More repulsive to curly hair. Detail 5: The latest popular fresh hair care methods, such as hair mask care and hair refutation, were quickly accepted and put into action at the right time. Detail 6: Styling hair care products and hair nourishing water are always with you in case of emergency. Fingertips are intellectual. Fingertips are intellectual. So can you. Details 1: Hand guards should be done all year round. Detail 2: Pay attention to cleaning nails and never let them leave dirt. Detail 3: In your spare time, enjoy manicure in high-end manicure places. Detail 4: Have the same hobby as elegant women in the choice of nail color. Detail 5: Pay attention to the nutrition of nail plate during manicure, remove it with nail polish remover 5 days after manicure, and let the nails breathe freely for two days. In a word, everything is treated with a scientific attitude. Intelligence through train 1. Learn tea ceremony and cultivate aesthetic taste. 2. Practice yoga to make the body soft and stretch, and the training movements are natural and elegant. 3. Take part in regular exercise, such as jogging at dawn or walking at sunset. 4. Participate in the compulsory training course of personal image quality and conduct systematic training. True intellectuality is self-confidence, self-consciousness, not happiness or sadness. Comfortable is enough, suitable for yourself, preferably suitable for others. (it may be related to the number of emotional intelligence and IQ. Everyone has an intellectual side, but too many trivial things in life cover it up. The so-called intellectual woman should be elegant and pleasing to the eye. She treats people naturally and gracefully. She tells you with body language that she is a fashionable and decent woman who respects others, cherishes herself and knows how to live. Her feminine charm is as impressive as her ability to do things. Women who are self-reliant, self-reliant and confident in the new era. Intellectuality is the patent of mature women. With more experience, there is a story, which is wealth. With wealth, a woman's heart is much less vacant and anxious, inadvertently revealing a beauty and wisdom after years of experience. Maybe we won't go to the disco again, and we won't drink and have fun all night. But when the candlelight shines, our friends face to face, and we will gently raise our glasses in the soothing saxophone music, recount the past and talk about the experience after parting, and then slowly turn around in the melody of "going home", leaving each other with a yearning and blessing back-a beautiful scenery. But maturity is not intellectual. An intellectual woman must be confident, generous, intelligent and wise. Women are like water, and beautiful girls are like lively streams in mountain streams. A mature and intellectual woman is graceful and rich in connotation, like a broad and stable river. Although there are fewer waves and lighter colors, many a mickle makes a mickle, which is full of charm. Every ripple, every drop of water is fascinating. Intellectual women are emotional but not arrogant, elegant but not arrogant, introverted but not funny. Just like Rene Liu and He in the entertainment circle, although they are not beautiful, they are all very talented, gentle, refreshing and true. Just like their songs, they are full of moist fragrance. The more delicious they are, the more charming they are, and they still have a touch of poetry ... Intellectuality is related to age. Before the age of 30, it was flashy and thin; After the age of 30, I am introverted, full and rich. Intellectuality is related to reading. The love of books can help women get their thoughts and feelings about life, so that they can observe the world calmly. An intellectual woman, like a rough piece of jade, has become crystal clear and mellow after years of careful polishing, making you feel endless beauty and youth. While being biased towards women, intellectuality is also absorbed by women, making women unique and perfect. An intellectual woman, embodied in her sober mind and mature mind, will judge the situation and keep up with the pulse of the times. She will take a free and easy attitude towards new things. In the face of the noisy dust, she will wait until the dust settles, laugh at the situation with reason, pawn the aftermath with calmness, never be bound by prejudice and habits, and never be opinionated. After years of tempering, intellectual women have faded away from being frivolous, indifferent and arrogant, and forgetting things. Her understanding, rationality and comprehensiveness are all just right. She will calmly examine the road she has traveled, and at the same time, she will constantly look back at her future butterfly change. She will struggle to break through the cocoon in the butterfly changes again and again, mature and accumulate experience in the tempering again and again. Show the charm of an intellectual woman with convincing maturity. Second, an intellectual woman is reflected in having a healthy mentality. An intellectual woman who is not old and has a healthy mind will handle things correctly and face her feelings correctly. A healthy attitude makes her not happy for things, not sad for herself, less impetuous and competitive; More demure, calm and serene. Cold comes and summer goes, the stars move, and the world goes round and round. She can feel that law in the dark, she can explore the mystery of human relations and grasp the key to the operation of life. An intellectual woman will love life healthily and follow the laws of nature. Like a song, she will integrate all the extraordinary brilliance in life into the melody of life. Whether it is exciting or soothing, she will regard insipid as the main theme. In the long river of years, she will only look back like a breeze and let it ripple comfortably. With a healthy attitude, there will be more healthy feelings, and healthy young feelings will make women young and beautiful. Yang Lan's intellectuality is very commendable. She is not only clever and wise, but also has a young mind. When a woman is 40 years old, she says, "A woman is 40 years old. Who are you scaring?" Her implication is that "40 is not the age for women to be pessimistic", what a young mind and confident language. I think when Yang Wei said this, he must have bent his mouth confidently and disdainfully and smiled at us. Third, intellectual women are embodied in showing themselves, experiencing value, being kind to everyone and being grateful for everything; You can be calm and calm, and you can compete with the world; You can also show a healthy attitude and show your personality charm wisely and openly. But limited to this, she is not an "intellectual" woman. Women's intellectuality should also be reflected in their own values, realize themselves and show themselves. Everyone can't judge his virtue and stupidity by intelligence, because everyone has different hidden intelligence factors, and people with good sense of music will embody melody intelligence; People who write well will reflect the wisdom of words; A thoughtful person will embody logical wisdom; If body language is developed, it will reflect sports intelligence and performance intelligence. In addition, there is Liu Bangshi's political wisdom of "being good at generals but not good at soldiers"; There are also some Han Xin-style "strength by numbers" management intelligence, Xiao He-style "comfort space" interpersonal intelligence, and so on. If everyone shows his cleverness, it has already reflected his self-worth. So do women. You know a craft, a specialty, such as financial management, mastering beauty tricks, and coordinating family relations. All these can show their talents and feel a kind of joy in the process of self-exploration and self-realization of intelligent experience. An intellectual woman is an intellectual woman with good moral quality and cultural accomplishment, who is more likely to perceive the impermanence of life. Therefore, treat everything with a normal heart, forgive others with compassion, have their own basic necessities, can be simple without losing taste, can divide food and mediate diet, can create a warm home without advocating glitz, and can walk out of a natural landscape in a hurry. An intellectual woman should also be a quietly blooming flower, always emitting a faint fragrance. No matter the common wild chrysanthemum or the luxurious peony in the beautiful garden, they all show themselves with a lingering fragrance and an indestructible intellectuality, shaping a perfect, beautiful and full blossom and fall, showing a wonderful scenery. Intellectual woman: with connotation, independent mind and spirituality. She can ignore the erosion of appearance by years, but she will never give in easily. She can be a far cry from the devil's figure and light posture, but she knows how to dress herself exquisitely and tastefully with a wise mind. To be such a woman, you must increase your knowledge and cultivate your charm, so that you can become an intellectual woman like her. Independence. This refers to the dual independence of economy and spirit. I am willing to be a caring bird and take care of your love nest, but when life suddenly changes and my feelings collapse to despair, I can still spread my wings and soar. Without hopeless lingering and crying, that free sky is my spiritual home. I am independent, not that you want me to be independent, but that we want to be independent.

Beauty should be a landscape. Without excellent facial features, there must be charming modality, without splendid clothes, there must be decent clothes, without brilliant achievements, there must be elegant feelings. Beautiful women, quietly blooming, fashionable appearance, exquisite makeup, emitting that faint perfume taste.

Freedom. We should live freely and naturally, without restraint, affectation and injustice. You can pursue and compromise, you can have and give up, you can persist but not be stubborn. We face all the storms in life with a stronger or gentler character than others, and that unruly heart can light a bonfire in despair and shine the flame of freedom.

Reading. Learn to appreciate all the beauty in this world and enrich your thoughts in reading. No matter you are busy or lonely, you can calm down and read a book, so that your heart can dance lightly in the words and immerse yourself in a book. Then, we will gradually become quiet, mature, profound and pure.

Patience. Who hasn't walked the rough and stormy road? Who hasn't shed the tears of a sad lover? Who is not independent after prosperity? But for the more beautiful scenery ahead, for the figure waiting at the corner, sometimes we need to endure the deepest loneliness. Don't go with the flow, don't go with the flow, don't sink, don't fall.

Tolerance. We can even tolerate our enemies. Why not? Will you tolerate yourself? To be tolerant of yourself, we must first be tolerant of others. After releasing others, it is our own blockbuster. You should understand that tolerance is an invisible force, which will eventually support yourself strongly.

Elegant. This is a spiritual feast for myself. Even if life is hard and children are running around, we have the ability to make the same life taste different. Romance in fireworks is the real emotional dependence, and calmness in adversity is the real strength. There is nothing in this world worth exchanging our lives for.

Calm down. A quiet and far-reaching mass lifestyle. Even if fame and fortune can't be completely external things, don't spill other people's blood on yourself in this fight. Understand that everything in life is possible, everything is impossible, everything is worth it, and nothing is worth it. Laugh and talk, and you can disappear. Only in mulberry fields can frogs croak.

Insist. Develop good living habits and have your own principles of dealing with people. Even a small thing will sometimes become a bright spot on your body because of your long-term persistence, which will benefit you a lot. No matter how ordinary we are, we also have our own advantages, which may come from our persistence in a good habit.

Gentle. When life has become beautiful in tempering, when emotions have been refined in setbacks, what is the need for us to fight for strength and talk endlessly? No matter what happens again, smile gently, gently, gently. Even if there were tears, we gently turned them into stars that night and blinked our understanding eyes.