Papi sauce, an online celebrity, was scolded by hot search, ranking first in my life. Is selfishness a crime?

In the previous variety "My Daughter", the online celebrity papi sauce ranked the most important things in life, which triggered a heated discussion among netizens. Papi sauce believes that the importance of independent women should be ranked first, followed by partners, children and parents. "First, you spend the longest time with yourself. Second, I have been with my partner all my life. My children and parents are your only partners. Do you do the rest yourself, or do it yourself. 」

Some netizens think this idea is selfish, but more people agree. Shouldn't people live for themselves in this life? You can envy others to enjoy the sweetness of marriage and the joy of raising children, and I can also enjoy my own leisure and single happiness.

According to online reports, in the future, the population of China will be more concentrated in big cities, and the North, Guangzhou and Shenzhen will still be the first choice for young people, while more and more young people will choose single life: delaying the age of marriage and not getting married will prevail. The result is the rise of the single economy: eating takeout, keeping pets, simplifying social interaction and instant consumption ... Behind these, the concept of self-pleasure of young people is changing. More and more young people have learned to manage their own lives with care and shift their attention from the outside world to themselves. This is an ideological liberation and the progress of the times.

I often receive questions from fans backstage: "It's time to get married, isn't it?" Faye Yu said, "I'm in no hurry to choose. At what age do I want to have a real marriage ... which one do I think is more comfortable and at which stage? "

Don't try to solve the problems of life by getting married. Which life is more comfortable? Please select your stage. If you rush into marriage just because of age or family pressure, it will be too dangerous and irresponsible to yourself and others.

I'm not old enough to get married, but I love to get married. Age should never be a reason for kidnapping women to get married.

Chen Qiaoen, a famous "leftover woman" in the entertainment circle, is the protagonist of the first issue of Tucao Conference. She is urged to get married by netizens and journalists every day, and even laughed at by them. On the stage, she gave me a beautiful and domineering answer: Why do I hold my hand in my palm, but my own hand is red?

Contemporary women no longer depend on men for everything. As long as their life is wonderful and full, their own value will increase with their age.

A woman who lives a beautiful and confident life does not need to be wronged for marriage. I still remember a plot in I May Not Love You: the heroine Ariel Lin tries to date a man. As soon as she heard that Ariel Lin was 30 years old, she began to tell cold jokes about the age of girls, saying that the 20-year-old girl was a football and everyone was chasing her. A 30-year-old girl is a basketball, and fewer and fewer people are chasing her. This 40-year-old woman is. ...

The man not only behaved badly, but also showed obscene and contemptuous eyes. He also laughed at the hostess and even suggested that the hostess go for breast augmentation to 34E.

Ariel Lin couldn't help crying: As a young professional woman, has she fallen to this point at the age of 30? Can't you be with such a person if you want to end your single life?

If it is not because of mutual attraction, if it is not because there is no spark of love and soul, but because of boredom, old age and ease, what is the point of marriage?