What moments make you feel cold to your friends?

Life is like this. You have to go through some things before you can see some people clearly and know who is worth making friends with.

I believe that we will all have a moment when we feel that our friends have hurt us and we are very chilling. But I think sometimes we need to think from each other's point of view, not just feel wronged, but also think for them. The communication between people is mutual, so I believe you will get along well with your friends.

I also spent a very chilling time in our dormitory. Although my roommate will never be a friend, I still have a good friend in the dormitory. I thought it was good at first, but after a long time, contradictions appeared. I always feel that I am sincere to her, but she always ignores me when someone is with her, and comes to me when no one is around. I am a person, others are good to me, so I forget all the bad things. So I'm not satisfied anymore, but I'll be fine after a while!

However, she did a particularly excessive thing before, that is, at lunch. I remember it was particularly uncomfortable at that time, and no one spoke in the dormitory, so I thought about telling her. As a result, when we started talking, she said that I was very angry when I finished eating. Later, I never said anything to her again. But when I eat, she often makes me do this and that, and I feel very uncomfortable.

Actually, I think you can understand your friend. Maybe she is in a hurry and can't leave. After all, everyone has grown up and has their own things to do. Put yourself in her shoes and don't blame her. In fact, there is no need to be angry about it.