When a husband goes out to work, why do people make irresponsible remarks when a married daughter lives in her mother's house with her children?

Admittedly, this married daughter is easily gossiped because her husband goes out to work and takes the children back to his parents' home. The reason is probably like this.

One is the traditional idea that a girl married is her husband's family and can't always live in her mother's house. In many places, women get married and throw away bowls and chopsticks after worshipping their ancestors, which means they will never go back to eat their parents' meals. However, since the end of last century, there have been more only children, and everyone has only one child, so they are gradually less particular about it. It is not so clear that the husband and wife treat the young couple as their own children.

Secondly, it is not conducive to the running-in of family relations such as mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. The more the daughter-in-law runs to her mother's house, the more dissatisfied her parents-in-law are. The more dissatisfied the in-laws, the more the daughter-in-law runs to her family. Over time, the relationship will get worse and worse. Coupled with the long-term separation of the young couple, the feelings will be weak. Once the young couple have any contradictions, no one in this husband's family can make peace. In this way, the little wife who ran to her parents' house was afraid that she would really go back to eat her parents' food.

Third, we must not be suspicious and sit in the right position. When the little wife was a girl, who didn't have childhood friends? Who hasn't seen Seeds of Love? Many good memories and regrets in life are in her circle, right?

Many memories are just revisited, and many regrets are just made up, right? As long as it doesn't spread to the husband's family, most of them can be regarded as a little fun in life, and everyone will turn a blind eye. As for people who make irresponsible remarks, there will definitely be some.

In fact, Bian Xiao said that if the young couple talked privately. There are few young people in the countryside. Married leap girls can't sing with their wives because they have to take care of the children. It is normal for them to go back to their parents' home. Parents are the closest relatives, and hurting themselves will also hurt their children. They will help each other's lives, children will grow up healthily, husbands will work with peace of mind to make money, and parents will be less worried about their daughters. Is this a happy thing?

Gone are the days when you married a chicken and followed a dog. Besides, how many young wives are friendly to their in-laws now? My husband is not at home and lives with my in-laws, so there are many inconveniences. When you go back to your parents' house, your in-laws don't have to worry too much. My grandchildren often come back. They are still a family. What's so unhappy about it!

A leap girl has been married to her husband's family for more than a year, and living with them must be a bit uncomfortable. If her husband is not allowed to work, how can she go back to her mother's house? You can live if you live. A person raising a child can count on a painless one at home!

Children will grow up day by day, and everything will be experienced slowly. When a leap girl gets married, she will have her own opinion in her heart. If the child is older and both of them are at work, it will not be grandma's turn to have a little grandson. Grandparents can't wait.