Are you still swearing your family status with the title right?

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Is it better for the baby to take the mother's surname or the father's surname? ? Compound surname? Nor can it perfectly solve the problem of the right of crown and surname.

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Elon? What name did Musk give his son? x？ A- 12？ It feels like a string of codes. I'm really worried that the child will be called? Brother code? . The topic of children's right to crown their surnames has always been a hot and controversial topic.

With the development of the times, about children? The right of crown and surname? It has always been a controversial topic. Now there are even divorces because of the right of crown and surname, which shows that people attach importance to this. On the issue of the right to crown and surname, it will be amazing to trace back to ancient and modern China and foreign countries.

In Hong Kong, some women have a single surname at first, but after marriage, they become compound surnames. But this is not what everyone thinks. One is from my father and the other is from my mother. But to our great surprise, one of the surnames came from her husband. Husband's surname may be added after marriage, thus becoming a compound surname.

Although it seems incredible to us, it is nothing strange abroad. In the west, there has long been such a traditional custom, because in their minds, for women, the ultimate expression of love for a person is to be crowned with her husband's surname. In western history, this phenomenon symbolizes that men and women have finally merged into one.

In China, this happened in ancient times. Because of the low social status of women at that time, women would take their husbands' surnames after marriage. For example, if you marry a Qin, will a woman scream? Qin? ; If you marry a Li, you will be called? Lee? Women even give up their names and words and are even ignored. Nowadays, with the improvement of women's social status, children take their mother's surname.

Even if the child becomes a mother, it won't change her source. Therefore, it doesn't make much sense to call it motherhood.

However, the practice of using both parents' surnames cannot solve the problem of the right to crown surnames. You know, if both parents have a single surname, it is no problem to form a compound surname, but in the next generation, if this is still the case, then the child's surname may become a string of Chinese characters, which is not only inconvenient to call, but in the end you may not even know your own surname. This became a joke. Don't!

On the issue of surnames, both the upper class and the lower class have their own views. Perhaps the issue of the right to crown and surname will continue to be debated, but please don't ignore the children's ideas and finally embarrass them.

After all, a complicated surname and a complicated? Name? For children, it is painful. Not only is it inconvenient for others to call, but it is also troublesome to write it yourself.

Therefore, when parents name their children, they should not always think about taking an oath of identity, but also consider various factors, among which children should not be ignored. After all, for children, names may accompany them all their lives.

Say a word in heart:

When naming a child, we should not only consider that the name should be special, nice and full of beautiful meanings, but also consider that it should not embarrass the child and destroy family harmony and marital feelings. Don't think that a name will tear the family apart and the children will suffer in the end, don't you think?

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