How to actively chat with your boyfriend?

1. Ask something he will be interested in

Generally speaking, people will feel more comfortable when talking about themselves or things they like. Why? Because people know more about these topics and have already thought about them. Here are some topics to chat with your boyfriend for reference:

How was his day; His past experiences (such as childhood experiences, what he likes to do, and who means a lot to him in his family); His hobbies; His favorite sport; His favorite book, movie or music.

2. Current news

If you can find time to watch the news and read newspapers and magazines, there will be more topics to talk about in your mind. Let yourself keep up with current events, pay attention to interesting comedy video clips, or popular jokes on the Internet.

When you think the conversation between two people is getting boring, you can ask your boyfriend if he has read or seen anything interesting recently. If so, you can discuss what you think of it. If not, then this is the perfect time to tell him what you have seen recently.