In marriage, what jokes can't be played by couples no matter how good their feelings are?

In my opinion, marriage is like a sophisticated instrument, which cannot be separated from the careful management and cooperation of both husband and wife.

This powerful instrument can help you bear the hardships and grievances in your life and make your life a lot easier. But it is also fragile, and a little temptation and doubt may lead to its disintegration from the inside.

In the long marriage life, many couples will play some jokes to adjust the atmosphere and add some color to the plain life. But you have to be measured when joking. You should at least know what to say and what not to do.

But some people don't believe in this evil and have to use it? A joke? To test the marriage, test the feelings of husband and wife, and finally broke up, even the feelings of husband and wife appeared cracks.

So, I just want to remind all the girls: no matter how good the relationship is, don't open these three kinds? A joke? Beware of disaster from the mouth.

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What will you do if I don't love you one day? ?

From the moment they entered the marriage hall, the two people changed from passionate couples to loving couples, changing not only the address, but also the responsibilities and commitments on each other's shoulders.

From now on, you are both lovers and relatives, and the trust between husband and wife can never be shaken.

But some women are used to being willful and always like to fantasize about some boring scenes. A flash of light flashed in my mind and I asked my husband half jokingly: What will you do if I don't love you one day? ?

The so-called joke is always that the speaker is unintentional and the listener is interested. When you tell a joke, you will forget it, but the listener will remember it. Now you're just saying? What if you don't love him? But what has he been thinking? Do you really not love him? .

This joke is neither funny nor funny. No matter how your partner answers, you will never hear the perfect answer. Too many such jokes will only make lovers suspicious and lose trust between husband and wife.

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If I get terminally ill, will you save me? ?

As the saying goes? A friend in need is a friend indeed? How much affection there is between husband and wife will only be exposed in times of crisis. And this kind of trouble and * * * scene can't be assumed, and it can't be used as a joke.

But some women don't understand this truth. They have no scruples about their words and deeds. When their minds flashed, they asked their husbands half jokingly. If I get terminally ill in the future, will you save me? ?

Men are mostly rational creatures, and their thinking is not so jumping. The temptation you caught off guard will only confuse him.

In the face of this question, the man's answer is too decisive, and you will think that he is rhetoric and completely ignores it. But if a man thinks rationally and is silent for a moment, you will feel uncomfortable and ask your husband if he is sincere.

Life is alive, as long as it involves the topic of life and death, it is a big event, and jokes are not allowed. No one knows what choice he will make until the moment of life and death choice. Now you use this assumption to question your husband's sincerity to you, and it's just that you are unhappy. Why bother?

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What will you do if we get divorced? ?

Whether in love or marriage, break up? Are the most sensitive words, if married couples often wear them? Divorce? Joking is bound to arouse the suspicion and suspicion of the other party.

As a woman? Divorce? When this word is a joke, most men will? Hit someone? Just think, even if I politely ask your forgiveness now, I will inevitably doubt my wife's loyalty afterwards. At this time, no matter how you explain it, it is difficult for him to dispel his doubts.

Women should understand that trusting such things is always easier to destroy than to build. Once you plant the seeds of doubt in your husband's heart, when there is another quarrel in the future, he will think of the jokes of many years ago, thinking that all your dissatisfaction is premeditated and he has long wanted to give up this marriage.

Therefore, no matter what your marital status is, don't assume the future, let alone joke about the survival of your marriage. You told a stress-free joke, but he inadvertently took it seriously.