Too much words lead to mistakes! The smarter the person, the less likely they are to say these two sentences

Speaking is a science. People who can speak are good at decorating the language with words, making people feel convinced after listening; people who can’t speak, even if they don’t mean anything, will still attract others with their clumsy words and sentences. misunderstandings, offending others, and even causing trouble for oneself.

A kind word warms you for three winters, but a bad word hurts you for six months. Some people not only cannot speak, but also say some "stupid things" to make their lives difficult. The smarter the person, the less likely they are to say the following two sentences. Come and learn them!

1. Joking

You must make a lot of jokes in your life. Occasionally joking can liven up the atmosphere and make people in life happy, but sometimes using other people's pain points as a basis for conversation is not a joke, it is disrespectful to others. As a person, you must understand that some people are not as careless as you and don't care about other people's jokes. Some people are just sensitive. Your ordinary words will make them uncomfortable and even arouse their revenge.

You must have encountered this situation. You originally just wanted to make fun of a colleague's recent embarrassment, but what you said made the other person disobedient and angry, but you thought that the other person was stingy and unreasonable. Just kidding! Sorry, don't treat your lack of quality as sincerity, let alone use other people's pettiness to cover up your own lack of education. You can't just make any joke if you want to.

It’s like you and your girlfriend are chatting together. You originally wanted to remind her to bring an umbrella when you go out today to avoid getting caught in the rain like yesterday. In the end, you said: "Remember to bring an umbrella, otherwise it will be terrible if you become a drowned rat like yesterday. Do you know how funny it was when you were waiting for me to give you an umbrella under the heavy rain yesterday..." You clearly want to express your concern. It has become a sarcastic remark. No matter how generous you are, you will feel a little uncomfortable, let alone people with delicate minds.

Therefore, you must think more before speaking. You can say some things, but in other words, try to say as few jokes as possible, or not say them at all. Talking about other people's pain points is actually a stupid behavior. If you offend others, you will also bring trouble to yourself.

2. Speaking sarcastically at others

As a human being, you must understand that no one has the right to ridicule others. This society is equal. Don’t always put yourself at the top and look down on others. There is no distinction between high and low in life. Even if you look down on others, you cannot use words to hurt or ridicule others, because this is a matter of a person's quality.

In life, we often encounter people who speak ill of others and ridicule others behind their backs. These people may just want to show off their words for a while, thinking that talking about others is nothing, but they don’t know that what they say actually means It will bring you a lot of trouble.

First of all, when you say something like this, it reflects your inner thoughts to a certain extent. The speaker has no intention of speaking and the listener has intention. Even if the other party does not know it, others will have a bad opinion of you after hearing it. I think you are a narrow-minded person. Secondly, if some of what you say reaches the other party's ears, it will directly provoke disputes between you, which is not a good thing. Therefore, in order to reduce disasters, we should not say such words.

Whether in life or at work, we should know that language can hurt people. You are not qualified to ridicule others. Misfortunes come from your mouth. Your words may bring harm to yourself. No small disaster.

Two years to learn to speak, a lifetime to learn to shut up! There are some things that you really can’t say without even wanting to say them. As a human being, you must know that if you speak too much, you will make mistakes. Only by thinking more before speaking can you reduce the chance of saying the wrong thing. The smarter a person is, the more he knows to say less of these two "stupid things", and I hope you will say less of them.