Just know what's here.

Datang gerocomium

There is a saying in the knowledge-only study: all idealism and all methods are knowledge-only. It means that everything is inseparable from happiness.

Today, at the last 15 minutes before the end of the visit to the nursing home, I saw Liao's mother-in-law sitting next to her two mothers-in-law after cutting her hair. She tied a treaty belt around her waist, presumably to prevent her from slipping out of the wheelchair. I'm going to say hello and squat down to make the old man visually comfortable. After I reasoned with my mother-in-law, I was refreshed. A new-faced mother-in-law across the street immediately said that she had become a beautiful woman. Liao's mother-in-law was amused by her statement, and I also said that her mother-in-law was beautiful and young. Grandma Liao was even happier and asked me where I came from. Mother-in-law forgot that we were with her again. ) I said that my friends come from various districts in Guangzhou, Yuexiu District, Tianhe District and Liwan District. At this time, the horse next to me saw me squatting and chatting, and immediately moved a chair and put it next to me. I was embarrassed, so I went to help at once, saying, Ma, you sit still and I'll squat. Li Yuan, the team leader, also came to help. Ma Yuyan still insisted on moving a chair for me to sit on, and she sat next to her. During the chat, I learned that the mother-in-law with a new face opposite was also surnamed Ma. I feel that she is younger and likes to call her Aunt Ma. Aunt Ma has short hair, no wrinkles, and looks just right. It turned out to be my new mother-in-law, who I had planned to accompany in the group, but I couldn't arrange to accompany her because the little friends group didn't come today. Now it's fate that keeps us together. Aunt Ma is talkative and likes joking. She talked about the past, when she accosted the boss of a snack bar near her home, and the boss invited her to dinner. She is very happy. She will joke about whether it will always be free in the future, and the boss will respond with a smile that you are fine alone. Aunt Ma kept smiling during the chat. I can feel that she is kind, popular and optimistic. Ma Popo and Liao Popo next to her were both infected by Aunt Ma, and they all laughed when telling jokes. The three old people are very kind, just 15 minutes. They feel very warm and feel their enthusiasm, just like accompanying each other.

The living environment of nursing homes may have its current limitations and causes, and more people are needed to promote improvement. However, there are still some old people who are sunny, optimistic and cheerful, and some can even use their positive energy to drive others. For example, Aunt Luo, Liu, Chen, Ma and Aunt Ma I know today.

Meet the unknown self: A (external environment) +B (mentality, consciousness) =C (emotion). The nursing home is a small space for life, so what about the big space for us to work and live outside? Whose high frequency drives whose low frequency is our companion? Different old people present different living conditions, just like incarnations, reminding us of what kind of life we want when we are in trouble and pain.

The external environment, we may not be able to change temporarily because of the present karma, but what can be changed is our heart. Everything in the world, including "I", is born of karma and has an empty origin. When the causal conditions are ripe, they gather into the occurrence of this thing and gather into this false self; When the conditions are not ripe, this thing disappears. It's just that we don't understand its essence, and we can always dominate it. Things have passed or happened, but I can't put it down and accept it, so my troubles are getting up. For example, if you can understand that birth and death are natural laws and life is a source, then face up to the disease, regardless of the outcome, accept it and don't complain, which is very helpful for rehabilitation or prolonging life. Another example is being slandered or hurt by others. We have realized its origin for a long time. If we repeatedly emphasize this matter in our hearts or mouths, we are actually hurting ourselves repeatedly with falling arrows and constantly instilling the seeds of the eighth knowledge. The seed is now an act of repeatedly emphasizing this matter, and the heart is full of pain. For example, the father, partner and children we rely on are also a source. Karma comes and goes, so we should return to ourselves, take good care of ourselves and take responsibility. Just like Aunt Xu talking to her visiting mother-in-law, the two old people are so calm, talking about how to get care, how to deal with emergencies, how to live and how to face death calmly.

Although, as an ordinary person, it is not easy to live in the original world, you can learn to be aware of your intentions first and reduce some troubles. I'm not afraid to think, but I'm afraid it's too late.

"I allow":

I allow anything to happen.

I allow things to start like this.

This development, this ending

Because I know everything,

It's all karma and combination

Everything is inevitable.

If I think it should be another possibility

It's only yourself who gets hurt.

The only thing I can do is to allow it.

I allow others to be like him.

I allow him to think so.

Judge me like this, treat me like this.

Because I know he is.

From his standpoint, he is right.

If I think he should be something else

It's only yourself who gets hurt.

The only thing I can do is to allow

I'm here to experience the present life.

Every moment.

The only thing I have to do is

Completely allowed

Complete experience

enjoy to one's heart's content

Listen, listen. . . .