How can I create a topic with a girl I like?

Chatting with girls, how to create a topic

In life, many boys always envy their friends for talking and laughing with the girl Kan Kan, but when they get along with girls, they are silent, and soon they are silent. What is the reason? In the final analysis, it is because we can't find a suitable topic, the atmosphere is tense and the situation is embarrassing. Next, DOG will teach you a few tricks to bid farewell to the ice emperor completely.

Tools/raw materials

A talking mouth

Methods/steps

self-introduction

If it's the first time to meet a girl, most of them are reserved, so as a boy, you must be generous and introduce yourself, don't ask the other person what he wants to answer, and be silent if you don't ask. A long silence may make the other person lose interest in you in an instant, and at the same time, you will deny that you are your own reason and make yourself feel boring. It is quite possible that this first meeting will be your last meeting. So when we meet for the first time, boys should take the initiative to greet girls and introduce them, so that they can have a preliminary understanding of you before the next conversation can take place.

Learn to praise

In the process of getting along with girls, it is essential to know how to praise. The purpose of the dog saying this is not to let you learn to kiss up, but to find a topic when praising each other. For example, her dress, she wore a light makeup today, you can praise her delicate and beautiful makeup; She is wearing a plaid shirt today. You can say that the style of this dress is good. Where did you buy it? You can buy one for your family when you have time. When she sees the dog squatting down to touch the roadside, you can also squat down to touch her and take the opportunity to ask her if there are any other animals she likes. This not only opens the topic, but also makes the other party think that you are a good boy who cares about your family and loves you, which naturally deepens the impression on you.

Know how to listen

In the process of getting along with girls, it is very important to know how to listen and listen to each other's voices. Maybe you will think that listening to each other quietly has nothing to do with creating a topic. You are all wet. Since a girl is willing to tell you the truth, it shows that there is a certain foundation for you. What you need to do is to stay quietly beside her and listen to her, but you can't keep silent, and occasionally agree or disagree, so that she can know that you are still a loyal listener, and at the same time, you can learn a lot about each other in the process of listening and prepare for the next question.

Be good at asking questions

Being good at asking questions is related to listening. In the process of listening, we can learn a lot about each other, such as her hobbies, her melancholy and subjective and objective evaluation of things. When you disagree about something, on the one hand, she will think deeply, on the other hand, she will think that you are an independent person and won't go with the flow, so she will strengthen her good impression on you.

deep in conversation

When getting along with girls, it is not enough to limit yourself to one or two topics. We should know how to analyze deeply and lead to another topic from the topic we are talking about, so as to realize the transition from this topic to another topic. For example, she said that the bag she was carrying today felt like a good deal, so you can take the opportunity to ask her where she bought it. If she says it's from online shopping, you can cut into this topic from online shopping and exchange the advantages and disadvantages of online shopping with her, so as to deepen, spread and continue the problem. When you finish the day's conversation, you will find that there are still many topics to talk about, so you hit it off and save it for the next time. Your relationship has just begun, and you will meet more and more times.

Weigh a person's words carefully and observe his facial expressions closely.

When you are alone with girls, don't recite all the prepared words like lines. After you finish, there will be endless silence, which will not only make people feel embarrassed, but also greatly reduce the other party's getting along with you. Boys can ask some interesting stories to arouse girls' interest, or talk about recent entertainment gossip to get girls involved. In short, the topic you are looking for should be as harmonious as possible. Remember to ask some questions about each other's privacy. If the other person is embarrassed or embarrassed, change the subject immediately and don't continue to delve into the same question.

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