Your boyfriend's performance as body double (usually 4 performances)

20 17 12.29, the film "predecessor 3" was officially released in the mainland.

To everyone's surprise, this low-cost film with an investment of only 30 million yuan finally won the box office of 65.438+07 billion, and was named as the outstanding romantic film of 2065.438+07.

According to some moviegoers, many people cried like children in the cinema after the movie, including men and women. The greatest success of this film is that you can see your own shadow in it.

We are all characters in the movie: Meng Yun who is desperate to save face, Yu Fei who doesn't want to bow his head first, and Jia Lin who doesn't want to put any sand in his eyes.

At the end of the movie, Wang Xin and Jia Lin are holding their children and bathing in the sunshine of a foreign country. When Jia Lin looked into the distance, she didn't know if she was thinking about badon min.

The movie came to an abrupt end. I wonder if Jia Lin, who is married, has forgotten her predecessor, and if Meng Yun, who has a new choice, will still be obsessed with her predecessor.

Teacher Tu Lei once said: If there is no predecessor in the world, the world will be peaceful. As a love mentor in the love campaign in the past ten years, I said this sentence by Tu Lei, from which we can see how the former stifles a relationship.

When a man can't forget his predecessor, he can't love the present wholeheartedly, which is unfair to him and irreparable harm. Usually, a man who can't let go of his old love will have these four performances. Women should be careful if they have two or more current boyfriends.

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Buy gifts for the present according to the former's preference.

Love Battle: A female guest complained,' I wear clothes in size M, and everything he bought me was in size S. I never liked red, but he especially liked to buy me red clothes. Later, I learned that his predecessor wore size S, and his predecessor liked red best. "

It is a happy thing for a woman to receive a gift from her boyfriend, but if this gift carries the cloud of her predecessor, I believe any woman will be very upset.

If you can't forget your ex, why start a new relationship?

It is normal to forget the old love of our predecessors. After all, we are all emotional animals, and the good memories together are like the faucet at the end of love.

Men can give themselves time to forget, let go, let go. Once they start a new relationship, they should take a responsible attitude towards the present and forget the old love.

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Breaking up doesn't mean never looking for each other, and it doesn't have to be deleted, blacked out and completely disappeared in each other's world.

The highest standard of letting go is: no contact, no hacking, no deletion.

When a man is in a daze with his mobile phone from time to time, the incumbent may be very confused and don't know what he is thinking. Even if they ask for it voluntarily, men will not say that they are thinking about their ex, but will find reasons to prevaricate.

In fact, maybe men are just looking at their ex's circle of friends. Her photos and current situation reminded him of the past, and then he fell into memories.

No matter what he expects, it means that he can't forget his predecessor at all.

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The predecessor can't mention "angel sanctuary"

The evaluation of one's predecessor can tell a person's character to some extent. When a woman asked her boyfriend to comment on his predecessor, he faltered and couldn't say a word.

In other words, every time he mentioned his predecessor, he flew into a rage and told you not to mention it and not to ask.

The former has become an' angel refuge' that can't be mentioned, just because the former is the deepest scar in his heart, and every time he thinks about it, the wound will crack again. I thought that if everyone didn't mention his predecessor, he could walk out slowly.

In fact, the real letting go is the inner peace and the calm attitude when talking about the predecessor. It's like talking about an old friend for years. Although saying goodbye to each other may not be happy, at least it is not an enemy, let alone an enemy.

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Think of the present as a substitute for your predecessor.

The ex who can't let go will always stand between him and the present. He will mention his predecessor from time to time and compare the present with his predecessor. The implication is that men want to look like their predecessors and make him a substitute for their predecessors.

For example: my ex-girlfriend is much thinner than you, so you can lose weight;

The ex-girlfriend made up.

Good, you study hard; The sweet and sour fish cooked by my ex-girlfriend is delicious. Please study how to make …

When a man has this requirement, the incumbent must understand that he doesn't think how good his predecessor is, but he can't forget the old feelings and wants you to be a woman like his predecessor.

Don't take these words as a man's joke, even if he tells you so, don't believe it. Chances are, he still has feelings for his ex.

It is human nature to still have feelings for your ex. A woman should not think that his affection for her ex can show that this man is single-minded and responsible.

I can't forget my ex, which means that he is not ready to start a new relationship and accept a new lover. All your actions can't impress him, nor can you shake the position of your predecessor in his heart.

Emotion is not a child's play, let alone a game. Once you find that the problem cannot be solved, stop the loss in time. This is the most effective way to protect yourself.

Of course, a man is not required to completely sever contact with his ex and become a stranger, but in the process of "contacting" with his ex, he will consider your feelings and tell you the whole story without cheating or hiding.

There is no need to object to aboveboard things, which also shows that women are generous.

If your partner can do this, don't care too much about his predecessor. If he can't get over his previous relationship, women should consider whether to adjust their mentality in time, make an accurate judgment and make the right choice for this relationship.