How to treat the scandal of 60-year-old aunt falling in love with "fake Jin Dong"?

When all the people around her, including her husband, son, the police in Changchun police station and the psychological counselor in the video, helped her analyze it from all angles and told her that it was a liar. Why doesn't she have the slightest doubt?

This is the psychological confirmation bias effect at work.

The confirmation bias effect means that if you have begun to believe in one view, it is difficult for you to accept other views that are contrary to this view. Even if there is a lot of new information to prove that your point of view is wrong, you will still selectively ignore it. You will only accept information that supports your original opinion.

So once she really accepted that her lover was a liar, cheated her feelings and cheated her money, it broke her love dream.

She is afraid that when she wakes up from a beautiful dream, she will become the uncared for, unloved and lonely self again.

Therefore, although she may be intellectually suspicious, she is emotionally unwilling to accept the reality.

So at this time, instead of giving her a reason, it is better to give her warm companionship and care.

Slowly, when she realizes that even if she wakes up from a dream, she is not alone. Someone understands her and appreciates her, she will have the strength to face the reality, return to the reality and live a down-to-earth and happy life.

Everyone knows the specific events. Aunt likes fake Jin Dong on the Internet. And think that "fake Jin Dong" also loves herself deeply and declares that she likes her in front of the people all over the country.

I believe most people's first reaction when they see this news is: Aunt is ill, and she is very ill.

I have to say that the first reaction is accurate. This aunt is really ill. The name of this disease is love paranoia, which is also commonly known as "anthomaniac". It shows that patients have feelings for others, especially for the opposite sex. Every move, word and deed of the other person is considered by patients as a hint of their love.

To put it bluntly, it is a kind of schizophrenia, and this aunt is obviously the case.

That's interesting. When people reach middle age, how can a married aunt suddenly put herself down and become emotional?

Most people don't know a woman of menstruation's age. I think it's all idle panic, dancing square dance everywhere to disturb the people; Today, I was tricked into collecting eggs to listen to health care, and tomorrow I will go shopping to take pictures and make eyes at each other.

In fact, calm down and think about it, every girl will eventually become an aunt. Aunt, what's wrong?

After The First Half of My Life was broadcast, divorced women all over China wanted to marry He Han, played by Jin Dong. Is it bad to have this wish? Who hasn't got an idea in their head yet?

Aunt doesn't want to be paranoid about love. Aunt is just too bitter. She has been tortured by a lonely, empty and loveless life for decades, and her heart has long been barren. Suddenly, a "good man of the whole people" confessed to his aunt. As soon as this little watering can hissed, it immediately became full of spring.

Therefore, when you are young, you can love if you want, and chase if you can. This is not ridiculous at all. Don't be so depressed, it's not good to make jokes again.

How to treat the scandal of 60-year-old aunt falling in love with "fake Jin Dong"?

In retrospect, there was a woman named Huang at the beginning of the year. Because the epidemic can't get out, I'm obsessed with audio and video. She is a fan of Jin Dong, searching for Jin Dong's number in the video. Things are full of troubles, and she really found it. This video of "Jin Dong" is full of sweet words. Besides this woman surnamed Huang, there are many older aunts who are infatuated with this "Jin Dong". Who knows that this "Jin Dong" is completely fake, not only deceiving the feelings of aunts with a video clip, but also selling goods. Aunt Huang is convinced that Jin Dong's sweet words in the video are all for himself, and he has to leave home to see his "lover". Neither husband nor son can persuade. After 13 broke out, Jindong has entrusted a lawyer to send a lawyer's letter to the fake account. And strongly urge them to withdraw their works and accounts. What do you think of the relationship between aunt and fake "Jin Dong" from this incident?

1. A woman in love has zero IQ, no matter how old she is. Aunt is 6 1 year old, and she still believes that Jin Dong will like her and even fall in love with her.

It's good for women to turn off beauty once in a while. 6 1 year-old, it should be a wrinkled age, but if you turn off your beauty occasionally, you won't believe the liar. After all, there are relatively few people of Angie Chiu type.

3. Women, emotional intelligence can be low. IQ is definitely there!

Emotional intelligence is not high, maybe others will say that you have a strange temper, or that you are simple and lovely. Those with low IQ are fools. How does Dong buy things? How does Dong flirt with a group of old people in their 60s?

Hey! Fish Leong's courage is to sing less. Actually, I was not surprised to see the news about the idolization of menstruation, because my parents are all the same, except my mother likes Zhu Shimao and my father likes Ni Ping. How crazy is Jin Dong's pension powder?

From a news story, a 6 1 year-old aunt fell in love with a fake Jin Dong, so she divorced her husband and married Jin Dong. No matter how her husband, son and memory explain it, this aunt just doesn't believe it. For this reason, she also quarreled with her husband, thinking that this is her love, not his business. Jin Dong made a confession in front of all China people.

These fake Jin Dong account videos are often composed by AI, which is easy for young people to identify. In fact, the aunt in the news is just an extreme case among many deceived aunts. On major video platforms, there are not a few such videos, and the video content is the same: "Sister, did you delete me?" Why didn't you reply to my message? Sister, I miss you so much. "In that case. The comments below these videos are even more "spicy eyes." A group of elderly aunts commented, "No, my brother and sister are busy, and my sister loves you very much. I give you my heart. Do you know? " And change "do you know" to "I don't know". This is obviously due to mistakes in handwriting and typing.

So why can these fake Jin Dong achieve such magical results with such low-level deception?

Jin Dong, male, an actor and singer in China, was born on February 22nd. 1976. In 2003, he graduated from the Music Script Department of the Performance Department of the Central Academy of Drama. 1993 Played the young Gao Xianyang in the TV series "The Merchant of the East" and set foot in the entertainment circle. 1999 was admitted to the musical class of the performance department of the Central Academy of Drama. In 2005, he starred in the film Autumn Rain, and was nominated for the Outstanding Newcomer Award in the 11th China Film Watch Award for his role as He Ming. The film Autumn Rain won the gold medal at Yalta International Film Festival.

In addition to acting, Jin Dong often plays some decent roles because of his good facial features. My aunt, who just learned to "surf" on the Internet, brushed Jin Dong, and she mistakenly thought that Jin Dong in a certain sound was Jin Dong himself. In addition, the elderly are more feudal, unlike young people who casually say "I love you" and "I miss you". Maybe my aunt heard the phrase "I love you" in the fake Jin Dong video for the first time in more than 60 years. Imagine how you felt when you first heard this sentence.

The purpose of these videos is to deceive menstruation's feelings?

I believe many people will be curious, so what is the purpose of these people making these videos to deceive their aunts? The answer is cash, cash in the window. They will ask aunt PUA if she has deleted me and doesn't love me anymore. Then why don't you buy the "Aunt Care Gift Package" I sent in Xiaohuangche? At this time, the anxious aunt will quickly explain in the comment area, saying that she is looking for her grandson to ask how to buy online. Finally, under the guidance of my grandson or daughter-in-law, I placed an order to buy the product.

What is the reason behind aunt's crazy infatuation with Jin Dong? Is it because of lack of love?

The answer is yes. The marriage of our parents' generation is often the words of parents' matchmakers, and it is often a combination with the purpose of "cohabitation". Coupled with the relatively closed era and low level of education, "love" is a taboo topic that is absolutely ashamed to talk about, while aunts start to work for their families after marriage, and their lives are boring and unchanged every day. By the time they retire, they have no entertainment and gradually come into contact with the Internet. They like Jin Dong just as young idols like Sean and Abel. I just like different types of stars. We don't have to make fun of them. It's just that many times, we ignore these elders. In fact, they are flesh and blood people, and they need to be cared for and praised.

This is all Tik Tok's fault. If you brush Tik Tok at 60, brush Tik Tok! In fact, there is an anthomaniac who doesn't want to think about who the other person is. silent ...

I always thought that when people grow up, they create wealth and take responsibility. I really don't know what feelings I can talk about in my forties and fifties. But I found that many adults are more poisonous than novels.