If you earn 30 thousand a month, will you let your wife be a full-time wife?

Seeing this question, I clicked in without hesitation.

Let me clarify my point first. With my support, it will be a happy ending for our family.

My wife often says that my greatest wish is to be a housewife. It's a pity that I haven't let her realize this wish until now. To tell the truth, it is really not a good wish for two young people to live in this second-tier city. But if I earn 30 thousand a month, I think this wish will satisfy her.

My wife is working in a private company now. Because her work is very careful and appreciated by the department leaders, she arranged endless work and worked overtime almost every night. That's not enough. Every day, we have to face all kinds of disputes within the company. I feel tired for her when I think about it. Sometimes I really don't want her to work anymore. But she always sent me away with a "wait". In fact, I know she is worried that after his resignation, I can't bear the burden of my family.

See how much pressure this second-tier city has brought to young people. The income of the two of us is about 654.38 million yuan per month, which is really not high. Mortgage is a fixed monthly expenditure, 2500 yuan, which is already very small compared with others; Children go to primary school, no one picks them up, but fortunately they can eat at school at noon, 200 yuan a month, and 500 yuan a month for later care; Insurance ... why can't I count?

Unfortunately, the topic is just a topic. Let's work hard and try to make our wife realize her wish as soon as possible. This wish is her wish and mine.

I have been working full-time for three years and started working full-time when I was pregnant. Family income Husband's annual salary is 30w, and the rent is 8w. Everything is under my control. Every month, my husband returns the credit card, leaving 2000 for emergency and handing in all the rest. My parents-in-law will also subsidize 20,000 to 30,000. (Actually, we don't need it either. But we should stick to the principle of "stop when you are ready". I still accept it. )

Full-time has both advantages and disadvantages.

The advantage is that you can enjoy the happy time with your baby every day. The bad thing is that sometimes I get paranoid.

She was taller than her husband before pregnancy and much taller when she first got married. Slowly, he caught up with me, almost.

I don't understand the concept of a full-time wife. I am a stay-at-home mom. Is a full-time wife the kind of person who does nothing but love beauty and spend money? Or is it hard to raise a baby and take care of the family?

There is a big difference between the two. I am a stay-at-home mom at present. When my baby goes to kindergarten, I will be a full-time wife for a while. Because stay-at-home mothers are very hard, children can relax when they are older, without being too hard. Women should also take a vacation for themselves. So I plan to go to kindergarten in a doll, so I will give myself leisure, beauty, shopping and strolling until I am beautiful.

Take a year off and find a career that suits you. People who are always idle will rust. Life also needs to be colorful. Older children will be proud that their mothers have their own careers.

A woman's life should be colorful. Adjust your mentality, be optimistic and happy, and face life positively.

My whole family should be grateful to me as a stay-at-home mother, because I take the doll very well. I think it is worthwhile for me to take care of the doll full-time. Because I gave her the best company. More precious than earning her hundreds of thousands more. This kind of time is only more than three years, which is precious. I am very grateful to my family and my husband for their support, so that I can have this opportunity to participate in the growth of my daughter.

It was originally given to a child and saved more than 800,000 yuan. I thought I wouldn't depend on my husband full time. Thinking about saving enough money to avoid full-time, I feel like a man is raising. But in order to change the school district for the children. 800,000 yuan was arrested, and still owed 6.5438+0.8 million yuan in loans.

So I saved up and paid off the loan. Get out of debt and danger. But stay-at-home moms are really tired. You need not only money, but also strong physical strength and spiritual understanding and support from your family.

In particular, I understand that if a man earns 30 thousand a month, but it is not the responsibility of a woman. Women run after their families, thinking that women have children. I'm not sure about the meaning and effort of staying at home. Not sure about the labor value of stay-at-home mothers. That won't do. Women must let men affirm the value of their labor full-time.

No matter how late my husband comes back from overtime, he will help me cook porridge and eat it the next morning. Because he knows that I put the baby to bed very late, and I have to wake up several times at night. As long as the daughter doesn't sleep when she comes back from work, it's dad's time. He wants to play games and tell stories. I took it to bed until after nine o'clock. Then he tidied up the room and made an appointment for breakfast. Saturday and Sunday, shopping. Children eat, I only buy clothes. Other milk powder, diapers, snacks, picture books and toys are all the responsibility of Dad. Take it to the playground for early education. Washing milk, changing diapers and taking a bath are all like dreams. Because he knows that stay-at-home moms are really tired.

But my father-in-law doesn't quite understand. So sometimes I get angry and think I should change my husband, haha.

I am happy to share my thoughts. First of all, as a man, I will respect my wife's opinion first. If she wants to work full time, I won't insist on stopping her. I think it is also an exercise for her to know the hardships and hidden rules in the workplace ... Many times, you will know what you really want and how to face this society. If she doesn't want to, I will respect her. At this time, I hope she can be a good wife and mother at home, take good care of her family and children, and I can eat her delicious food and chat together after work. She can also give her children a more comfortable home at home.

However, I don't have 30 thousand months now, and my wife is also doing some part-time jobs to share with me. She works part-time online while taking care of the children at home. Great, I don't have to worry. It can be said that she kills two birds with one stone! I am very grateful to her for her dedication to this family, and I hope that everyone will take good care of their wives and take good care of this family, which is indispensable! Everyone is safe and healthy, I am very satisfied! What about you?

My salary six years ago has reached 4000 yuan, which is the highest in our circle.

For example, Haibo's salary is only 3000 yuan. He actually drives a LaVida, but his elderly parents help him pay back his car loan every month. His daughter-in-law works in an upscale club in the city and never comes back once a month. I heard that the relationship between the two people is not good either.

Lu Tao didn't have a job during that time. Her wife is a foreigner and doesn't like to associate with people. After they got married, she couldn't leave the house. It is said that the last family lived for 8 yuan for a week, and it was only after his wife sold the gold necklace that he spent that time. Although they have been married 15 years and have no children, he still loves his wife very much.

At that time, Jenson had a girlfriend who was idle and didn't work. Other girls are really blind after him. It turned out that he cheated his father 10000 yuan, saying that he was engaged. When he got the money, he fooled around with the girl for more than a month. When others saw that he had no money, he left. During that time, I thought he was insane. I helped him, too, and nothing happened.

Xiaohui is my best friend and the most motivated. Sometimes he can earn thousands of dollars more a day. He just got married that year, and his lover is from the northeast. The two of them worked together to give people a good life, but in the end he ran away because he owed a lot of usurers to gambling. I heard that the child is 3 years old now, and the two divorced because of his gambling. It's just that the child is bitter, and now he has never seen anyone alive or dead.

Although I smoke, I also drink, although I also drink tea, I also eat sugar. The only thing I don't touch drugs, gamble or go whoring is that my ability to earn money and support my family is average, alas ~ ~

But even if I don't earn much, when I earned 4000 yuan six years ago, my wife was a full-time wife at home. Maybe many people don't believe it. What kind of courage and confidence gave me such a decision? So there is really a little story to share with you.

On that temporary business trip, I opened my backpack on the train and found a box of condoms. I suddenly understood, and my heart was warm. How many women can do this? Do you have the heart to let such a good wife go out and work hard? It's not good to put it at home for the New Year!

Thanks for reading!

I'm at home taking care of the baby full-time, and I'm very tired. Just like a full-time nanny doesn't rest 24 hours a day, 365 days a year, the nanny has off-duty time, which a full-time mother doesn't have. She doesn't have her own time. Children have to do some washing and cleaning when they sleep, so it is very hard for full-time mothers to take care of their children, which is no easier than going to work.

Although I don't know my monthly income is 30 thousand, it's still very luxurious to take care of the nanny, and I'm not at ease to give it to others to take care of the children!

My understanding of a stay-at-home wife is that it should be cool to have nothing to do at home, go out to play, beautify the body, dress in buy buy and go shopping, but it is also lonely because of lack of friends.

Actually, it's interesting that you ask this question. Making a wife a full-time wife has nothing to do with salary. Now most men want their wives to be full-time wives. The problem is that they also want to have their own careers and lives.

Nowadays, society pays attention to equality between men and women. There is no longer a man outside the house, but a woman inside. I have seen many families where men come home from work to cook, wash clothes and do housework. There are also many full-time husbands, not a few.

Even if I earn millions a month, my wife doesn't want to be a full-time wife. On the contrary, I only earn 2000 yuan a month. My wife wants to be a full-time wife, and I will support her. The big deal is to be lucky and earn more money.

No matter what the wife chooses, she is working hard for this family. It's just different So how much you earn has nothing to do with a stay-at-home wife. This mainly depends on the wife's thoughts. Can't be forced. It's unfair to them.

Thank you very much for inviting me!

This question seems to be tailored for me. I earn at least 30 thousand a month now, including salary and bonus.

My wife was still at work a few years ago, but I asked her to resign at the end of last year, because her monthly salary was only 3000 yuan, which was unnecessary for our family.

When I first married my lover, she married me without hesitation under the pressure of the whole family. We didn't have a wedding, and no one blessed us. We didn't rent a house until we got the license. Three meals a day can only maintain food and clothing. After more than ten years of hard work, our two in-laws have a successful career, and now they have a house, a car and children. The joy in their hearts is hard to express in words. We can only thank the party for its good policy of reform and opening up.

I am from Anhui and my wife is from Shaoguan, Guangdong. I have experienced three failed marriages before. I am older than my wife 13 years old. My wife knows all my previous experiences. The key is that she recognizes my character. She knows that I am a "potential stock", so it is not accidental that we have achieved impressive results now, but the result of our down-to-earth, step by step and unremitting efforts.

Nowadays, young people are generally impetuous. They often dream of getting rich overnight and borrowing money to buy a car and house. These are hidden dangers. The financial subprime mortgage crisis in 2008 is a lesson from the past. Throughout the world situation, the international financial situation is not optimistic.

Be prepared for danger in times of peace. No matter how much money an individual earns, the fine tradition of thrift cannot be lost.

Life needs a healthy and uplifting attitude.

What kind of life you have, what kind of life you will choose. Different values make different choices.

A woman who loves life, enjoys life and can get happiness and satisfaction at work, her husband's monthly salary is 30 thousand, which is the same as 300 thousand, whether she chooses to be a full-time wife or not. Even with an annual salary of 3 million, she doesn't want to be a full-time wife.

I remember when the child was born, my husband wanted me to take care of the child at home for free. Let me be a full-time wife. At that time, his monthly salary was 4,000 to 5,000 yuan.

He even went through the formalities of leaving his post without pay without my consent. He said he didn't want me to work hard and let me enjoy it at home. I asked him, your monthly salary is 5000. If I don't go to work, will your salary be enough? He said, I can earn more part-time, so I told him that you earn 65,438+10,000 yuan a month, and I don't want to take care of my children at home, because that's not the life I want. I don't want to stay at home because I am used to working. I like work and enjoy it. It is cruel of you not to let me work. Can't help it! My husband had to give up the idea of making me a full-time wife.

So whether or not to be a full-time wife is not a question of how much money a man earns. But how women choose and what kind of life they choose.

I will respect my wife's opinion, because life is her life and no one can replace it. What kind of lifestyle she chooses is her own will. I can't force her to be a housewife just because my salary is high and she can live a carefree life. If she doesn't want to take care of her children at home, want to travel outside and don't want to be out of touch with society, as long as she feels happy, that's what she wants, then I respect her choice.

This is how I love her! ! !

My husband also gave me complete freedom. Whether I want to work or stay at home, he respects my choice. Although his salary is only a little over 10 thousand, it is a bit hard to support me and my three children. But whenever I feel angry and tired when wandering outside, he will say, just let me watch the children at home and wait for him to come home from work for dinner. Making money is a man's business, and he will try his best to make us live a good life. It's not sweet talk, but it's really touching. This is a man's responsibility. The way men love you is more reliable than those men who only talk sweet words. We women don't want much. All we want is that our husband can be kind to us and respect our choices. So we have been married for eleven years, and we have always had a good relationship. I feel very happy. It's nice to have a male chauvinist husband with little self-respect! I hope all female friends can live the life they want! ! !

It depends. If I don't want her to be a full-time wife without children, I hope her life will not be so monotonous, and I don't want her to be less boring. No matter what job she is looking for, my money is still her money. I just hope that when I am not around her, she will also have colleagues and friends to live happily together. If I have children, I want her to be a full-time wife. I don't want her to miss her childhood, and I don't want her to lack fatherly love. During the break, I will take care of the children with my wife, go out to play together and so on, because women are more sensitive and will think when they are free. When they have a job, they will be very relaxed. After work, they will talk about interesting things and troubles at work, and of course they will respect their opinions. She can go to work if she wants, but she can't go if she doesn't want!